We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes are about people.“Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?” When I got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it, as a friend? Or did he envy(嫉妒)my luck?”“And Paul-why didn’t he pick up that he was friendly just because I had a car?”When we look back, doubts like these can make us feel bad. But when we look back, it’s too late.
Why do we go wrong about our friends or our enemies? Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning. And if we don’t really listen we miss the feeling behind the words. Suppose someone tells you, “You’re a lucky dog.”that’s being friendly. But“lucky dog”?There’s a bit of envy in those words. Maybe he doesn’t see it himself. But bringing in the “dog” bit puts you down a little. What he may be saying is that he doesn’t think you deserve your luck.
“Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for ”is another noise that says one thing and means another . It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole. But is he? Wrapped up(包藏) in this phrase is the thought that your problem isn’t important. It’s telling you to think of all the starving people in the world when you haven’t got a date for Saturday night.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s got a date for Saturday night? Good look at the person talking. Do his words fit the way he looks? Does what he says agree with the tone of voice? His posture(姿态)?The look in his eyes? Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people to you may save another mistake.
1.This passage is mainly about_____.
A.how to interpret(understand) what people say
B.what to do when you listen to others talking
C.how to avoid mistakes when you communicate with people
D.why we go wrong with people sometimes
2.According to the author, the reason why we go wrong about our friends is that_______.
A.we fail to listen carefully when they talk
B.we tend to(倾向)doubt what our friends say
C.people usually state one thing but means another
D.people tend to be annoyed when we check what they say
3.In the sentence “Maybe he doesn’t see it himself.” In the second paragraph, the pronoun “it”refers to____.
A.being friendly B.a bit of envy C.lucky dog D.your luck
4.When we listen to a person talking , the most important thing for us to do is _______.
A.notice the way the person is talking
B.take a good look at the person talking
C.mind his tone, his posture and the look in his eyes
D.examine the real meaning of what he says based on his manner, his tone and his posture
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– . We still have one week to prepare for it.
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写作。
你班下周将转来一个日本学生Yuri,你是班长,班主任要求你向新生介绍班级、学校和当地生活的基本情况,以帮助她尽快适应。请你根据下面表格中的要点拟写介绍词。
要求:1. 内容涵盖所有要点。2. 适当发挥充实。 3. 不少于80字。
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Are you good at playing _______ guitar or _______ basketball?
A. the, the B. the, a C. / , the D. the, /
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短文填空。从方框中选择恰当的词,并用其适当形式填空,使短文完整、通顺,每个词限用一次。
they, time, problem, way, have, health, many, breakfast, smoke, parent |
How often do you have dinner with your family?
Studies show that family dinner hour is an important part of 1. living. When family members eat together, they are more likely (可能的) to eat 2. fruit and vegetables and less junk food. When younger kids often eat dinner with 3.family, they are less likely to be overweight (超重的).
In the US, about one in five children aged 6—19 are overweight. That puts them at higher risk of many health 4.later in life.
“One of the simplest ways for parents to understand their teenagers better is by 5. family dinners often,” said Joseph Califano Jr., an expert from Columbia University.
Joseph did a national phone survey (调查) of 1,000 teenagers and 829 6.of teenagers. The survey results show that eating dinner as a family helped kids in many 7.. It helped them get better grades, and kept them away from bad habits like 8., drinking and taking drugs.
In fact, it’s not the family dinner that’s important; it’s the 9. together. It doesn’t have to be dinner. It could be lunch or 10.. The point (重点) is not being in the same space at the same time while eating. The point is sharing and communication.
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As the Internet becomes more popular, many older media (媒体) businesses are dying out. But TV seems to be doing OK. In fact, it's doing better than OK. Though the Internet is popular in the world, television continues to draw more and more people all over the world to many of its programs. Hundreds of millions turn to TV to watch World Cup soccer,Olympic Games and Discoveries.
In many places, increasing numbers of people can watch more TV than before. Ten years ago, only 44% of British homes had satellite or cable TV(卫星或有线电视).Today, more than 93% do. More importantly, recent studies show that people are spending more time watching TV. Surprisingly, this is even true of young people between the ages of 8 and 18.Today's television industry has given so many choices. As a result, people can watch more of the things they like 24 hours a day.
The technology behind television has also improved. The big boxes that once filled living rooms are gone. Today's TV screens are thinner and thinner, yet the pictures are better and better. TVs are also moving from living rooms into kitchens and vehicles.
For years, TVs have also been used as video game players. But now they have been used in a few new ways. Many televisions can connect to the Internet and record programs. They also let people watch two programs at the same time. Today the most modern television has been on the way of development.
The Internet is the main challenge (挑战) for television now. But TV industry has shown that television will be important for years to come.
1. Studies show that people are spending more time watching TV than before. ( ) 判断正误(“T”表示正确,“F”表示错误)
2. Many televisions can _______________the Internet and record programs. 完成句子
3. Where are TVs moving from living rooms? 简略回答 _______________________
4. What is the main challenge for television?简略回答__________________________
5. 将文中画线句子译成汉语 ______________________________________________
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A. so B. and C. but D. or
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任务性阅读。注意:每空限填一个单词。阅读短文,根据所读内容在短文后图表中的空格里填入一个恰当的单词。
What is a hurricane?
You may already know that hurricanes are storms that can cause devastating(毁灭性的)waves,wind,and rain.They happen during“Hurricane Season,”which is from June 1st until November 30th in the Atlantic Ocean and from May 15th until November 30th in the Pacific Ocean.
Categories(类别)of Hurricanes
There are five categories of hurrlcanes, which are based on wind speeds. The categories help people know how much damage(危害)a hurricane may cause because the greater the wind speed,the more dangerous the storm.For example,a Category 5 hurricane has winds over 155 miles per hour,which are strong enough to destroy the buildings along the shorelines completely.
Hurricane Dangers
When a hurricane happens together with heavy rainfall,there can be a devastating flood.The centre of a hurricane is called the eye.While most of a hurricane has dangerously strong winds,the eye is actually(事实上)a calm area in the storm.When the eye of a hurricane passes over land,people might think that it’s over,but before long the wind and rain increase again as the second part of the hurricane moves through.
Hurricane Safety Tips
There is no way to stop a hurricane or make it change direction,so if you ever find yourself in the path of a hurricane,be sure to remember the following safety tips.
·Be sure you have a radio,batteries,fresh drinking water,and enough food.
·Tell neighbours,friends,and family members your emergency plans.Tell them where you’ll go if you need to leave your home.
·If you live near the ocean,leave your home and travel to a safe place.You could stay with a friend or a family member,in a hotel/motel,or in an emergency shelter area.
·Stay inside during the storm.You could be seriously injured(受伤)if you go outside.
Hurricanes | |
Characteristics | ☆Hurricane Season usually1.about 6 months in the Atlantic Ocean and 6.5 months in the Pacific Ocean. ☆Devastating waves,wind,and rain are usually the2.of hurricanes. |
Categories | ☆Hurricanes have been3.into five categories by scientists,based on wind speeds. ☆A Category 5 hurricane can destroy all the4.along the shorelines. |
5. | ☆When a hurricane comes together with heavy rainfall,a terrible 6.may happen. ☆The eye is the7.of a hurricane.Soon after it passes,the wind and rain increase again. |
Safety Tips | ☆It’s 8.to stop a hurricane or change its direction. ☆Don’t 9.the safety tips if you find yourself in the path of a hurricane. ☆Stay inside during the storm,10.you could be seriously injured. |
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---____________
---I’d like to buy a present for my father.
A. What are you doing?
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