We can have conflicts with our important persons like friends, relatives, workmates, etc. But the conflicts doesn’t necessarily mean that the relationship will be destroyed. In fact, sometimes conflict helps people to let out their silent feelings, allowing them to free their suppressed emotions. However, when in a conflict, we usually get angry and say or do things which aren’t linked to the problem at hand. Therefore, it is important that we should try to avoid conflicts through effective communication.
In a heated argument, we usually say things that aren’t related to the real problem, and even use rude words to make sure we gain an advantage over the other person. Then the whole situation goes badly. So we should separate(隔离) the root cause of the problem and build our discussion around it. This ensures that there are no rude remarks and the situation moves in a positive direction.
It’s easy for us to think we’re right and if something isn’t working out, it surely must be someone else’s fault. However, if you aim to solve a conflict, first of all, you should show some respect and allow the other party to express themselves. Using remarks like, “I understand your concern on this” or “I know you’re right at your end”, would make the other person feel more appreciated.
Sometimes some people get too excited and may behave in the wrong way or say something others may not appreciate. This can cause a worse situation. Actually, they should control their emotions and keep calm. This has to be learned through self-control and observing behavior of other people.
The tips mentioned above are useful for most situations. However, we don’t rule out the possibility that there are some people always want to create some sort of trouble for others. You can tell them from others, and putting in an effort to resolve a conflict with them may just not be a wise idea. The best way to deal with these people is to forget them. A famous saying can help you and that is: “You should never fight with a pig; you both get dirty and only the pig likes it.”
1.What can we learn from Paragraph 1?
A. Conflicts may help us deal with our emotions.
B. Conflicts can improve our relations with others greatly.
C. Effective communication can help us avoid conflicts undoubtedly.
D. The closer two friends are, the more conflicts are between them.
2.When making discussions to solve conflicts, we should ________.
A. know others’ personal quality
B. know others’ ability of expression
C. avoid showing our disadvantages
D. avoid the root cause of the problem
3.The author suggests that when people get too excited, they should ________.
A. behave like other people B. control the situation
C. learn to keep their head D. say something unconcerned
4.In the author’s opinion, how should you deal with those who always want to create trouble for you?
A. Fight with them. B. Ignore them.
C. Have a talk with them. D. Give them something they like.
科目：高中英语 来源：2016-2017学年安徽省六安市高一下学期第一次阶段检测英语试卷（解析版） 题型：阅读理解
I’ve just got to talk about this problem I’m having with my postman. It all began a year ago, after the birth of his first child. Not wanting to appear rude, I asked him about the baby. The next week, not wanting him to think I had asked out of mere politeness the week before, I asked all about the baby again. Now I can’t break the habit. I freeze whenever I see him coming. The words “How’s the baby?” come out on their own. It holds me up. It holds him up. So why can’t I stop it? The answer is that I want him to like me. Come to think of it, I want everyone to like me.
What about at work? Richard Lawton, a management trainer, warns: “Those managers who are actually liked by most of their staff (员工)are always those who are honest with staff, treating them as human beings and following common politeness like saying hello in the morning.” To explain the point, Richard told the story of the company chairman who especially wanted to be liked. One day, after making one of his employees fired, the employee replied: “If you were that sorry, I wouldn’t be leaving.” The lesson is that if you try too hard to be liked, people won’t like you.
The experts say it all starts in childhood. “If children feel they can only get love from their parents by being good,” says Zelda West-Meads, a marriage adviser, “they develop low self-confidence.” But is there anything wrong in being a giver? Anne Cousins believes there is. “Sometimes giving becomes unhealthy,” she says. “It comes when you do things for others but feel bad about it.”
I am now trying hard to say to people “I feel uncomfortable about saying this, but…” and tell myself “Refusal of a request does not mean Refusal of a person” and I find I can say almost anything to almost anyone.
1.Why does the author ask the postman about his baby?
A. He is interested in the baby.
B. He wants to be always polite to him.
C. He wants to leave a good impression to him.
D. It’s a way to start a chat with great politeness.
2.Managers are more likely to be popular if they ______.
A. help the staff with their problems
B. make sure the staff do not lose their jobs
C. encourage the staff to be polite to each other
D. do not make too much effort to be liked
3.What is the author’s intention of writing this passage?
A. To show how to let others like you more.
B. To encourage people to have more self-confidence.
C. To prove how to create a harmonious atmosphere.
D. To suggest ways of dealing with difficult people.
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科目：高中英语 来源：2016-2017学年江西省新余市高二下学期第一次段考英语试卷（解析版） 题型：任务型阅读
A student’s life is never easy.1.A lot of preparations are needed so you can be sure to go back home with a diploma and a bright future waiting for you. The following are some basic things you need to do before even seizing that passport and boarding on the plane.
Knowing the country.
You shouldn’t bother researching the country’s hottest tourist spots or historical places. You won’t go there as a tourist, but as a student. It’ll be helpful to read the most important points in their history and to read up on their culture.2.You surely don’t want to face legal problems, especially if you’re away from home.
Studying their language.
Don’t expect that you can graduate abroad without knowing even the basics of the language. Before leaving your home country, take online lessons to at least master some of their words and sentences.3.Doing this will also prepare you in communicating with those who can’t speak English.4.
Check the conversion（兑换）of your money to their local currency, set up your bank account so you can use it there, get an insurance, and find an apartment. The Internet or your intended school will be very helpful in finding an apartment and helping you understand local currency.
Remember, you’re not only carrying your own reputation but your country’s reputation as well. If you act foolishly, people there might think that all of your country men are foolish as well.5.
A. Packing your clothes.
B. Preparing for other needs.
C. Most importantly, read about their laws.
D. This will be useful in living and studying there.
E. That would surely be a very had start for your study abroad program.
F. Going with their trends will keep it from being too obvious that you’re a foreigner.
G. And it is even more difficult if you will have to complete your study in a foreign land.
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科目：高中英语 来源：山东省2016-2017学年高一（学优部）下学期第一次月考英语试卷 题型：完形填空
One sunny afternoon, a seven-year-old girl went for a walk. She crossed a large area of grassland into the woods ________ she realized that she was lost.
Sitting on a rock and ________ what to do, she began crying. After a while, she ________ to walk along a wide path lined with tall trees and thick bushes. ________ it was getting dark, she saw a small, dark wooden house. She opened the door and ________ stepped in. Suddenly, she heard a strange noise, and she ran out of the door and back to the ________. Cold and tired, she fell asleep near a ________.
The girl’s parents were out and her dog, Laddy, was at home. Laddy sensed that his mistress（女主人）was in ______ He jumped through a window, ______ the glass. He looked in the fields. But he couldn’t find his mistress anywhere. However, from the ground came a ______ scent (气味) as he lowered his head. He ______ the scent and walked across the grassland. Barking(吠叫) ________ into the air, the dog ________ through the woods until he found the ________. But the girl was not there, so he headed back to the woods. Much to his ________, he saw his mistress’ blue shirt in the distance. He ________ over some bushes and saw the little stream (小溪)，where the girl was ________.
When she opened her eyes and ________ her dog standing beside her, the girl said, “you ________ me, Laddy,” and she kissed him several times. Seeing their daughter and dog coming back, the parents burst into tears of ________. That night Laddy had a hero’s supper: a huge meal of steak.
1.A. before B. since C. while D. as
2.A. wondering B. forgetting C. remembering D. knowing
3.A. preferred B. expected C. failed D. decided
4.A. When B. For C. If D. Because
5.A. carelessly B. carefully C. hopelessly D. unwillingly
6.A. trees B. bushes C. woods D. grasses
7.A. stream B. rock C. tree D. house
8.A. prison B. danger C. peace D. charge
9.A. rubbing B. breaking C. mopping D. protecting
10.A. terrible B. strange C. pleasant D. familiar
11.A. missed B. discovered C. followed D. ignored
12.A. calmly B. loudly C. happily D. swiftly
13.A. searched B. visited C. lived D. travelled
14.A. window B. girl C. house D. hero
15.A. surprise B. sadness C. disappointment D. delight（高兴）
16.A. jumped B. climbed C. walked D. flew
17.A. awake B. active C. shocked D. asleep
18.A. knew B. watched C. looked D. saw
19.A. upset B. harmed C. rescued D. frightened
20.A. pain B. shock C. sorrow（悲痛） D. relief
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科目：高中英语 来源：河北省2017届高三下学期三调考试英语试卷（解析版） 题型：短文改错
假定英语课上老师要求同桌之间交换修改作文，请你修改你同桌写的以下作文。文中共有10处语言错误，每句中最多有两处。每处错误仅涉及一个单词的增加、删除或修改。
增加：在缺词处加一个漏字符号（∧），并在其下面写出该加的词。
删除：把多余的词用斜线（＼）划掉。
修改：在错的词下划一横线，并在该词下面写出修改后的词。
注意：1.每处错误及其修改均仅限一词；
2.只允许修改10处，多者（从第11处起）不计分。
In my mind, I could never fancy how ten second of life could change a person’s view for his whole existence. A few years ago I experience the worst moment in my life. I was driving home that afternoon. Unfortunately, I didn’t make it home as usually because I had a car accident. While I was driving, all of a sudden, but the car in front of me stopped. My car immediately ran into it. Luckily, I wasn’t serious hurt. That accident changed way I drive and they taught me a valuable lesson. I also came to the conclusion which life needs to be treasuring.
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科目：高中英语 来源：2016-2017学年河北省高一（承智班）下学期第一次月考英语试卷（解析版） 题型：完形填空
When Mrs. Delgado asked her daughter Sonia to bring muffins(松饼)to a sick neighbor, Sonia said sure. But when Sonia _______who the neighbor was, she was not so sure. The neighbor’s name was Mrs. Craverham, and kids in the neighborhood said she was the_______person who ever lived.
Sonia walked up the path to Mrs. Craverham’s. She did not________the idea of anyone being sick and alone, but what if the kids were_______? A girl in Sonia’s science class said that Mrs. Craverham had poked(戳)her with a stick last Halloween. Sometimes people heard _____and moans(呻吟声)coming from inside. And a boy in Sonia’s math class said Mrs. Craverham had hung him upside down and painted him yellow when he______kicked a soccer ball onto her lawn.______between wanting to help someone______and not wanting to come home a different color, Sonia decided to be_______.
Finally Sonia_______the door. After a few moments, Mrs. Craverham answered the door and______in a rough tone, “Who are you? What are you doing here?”
Mrs. Craverham______. “My, that’s sweet. I’m sorry if I seemed______, but young people sometimes dare each other to come to my door _____they think I’m going to do something to them. As soon as I answer the door, they ______laughing or play a trick on me.”
______, Sonia heard a loud howl(嚎叫). Mrs. Craverham _____as Sonia jumped. “Oh, that’s just Norbert, my parrot. He’s watched too many scary movies—like you, I think!” Then Sonia came to _____that people are not always what they seem.
1.A. found out B. sorted out C. let out D. carried out
2.A. oldest B. poorest C. meanest D. ugliest
3.A. share B. like C. give D. receive
4.A. disappointed B. angry C. right D. strict
5.A. cries B. cheers C. laughter D. argument
6.A. happily B. easily C. calmly D. accidentally
7.A. Frightened B. Concerned C. Puzzled D. Amazed
8.A. at hand B. in need C. in danger D. at sight
9.A. clever B. stubborn C. brave D. funny
10.A. knocked on B. broke down C. pulled D. shut
11.A. explained B. demanded C. requested D. asked
12.A. cheerfully B. sincerely C. shyly D. excitedly
13.A. afraid B. tired C. ill D. sad
14.A. agreed B. relaxed C. added D. stopped
15.A. dishonest B. impatient C. nervous D. rude
16.A. because B. while C. although D. unless
17.A. show up B. run off C. move on D. set out
18.A. Suddenly B. Certainly C. Naturally D. Possibly
19.A. shouted B. laughed C. expressed D. nodded
20.A. remember B. admit C. hope D. realize
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科目：高中英语 来源：2017届河北省高三（高补班）下学期第一次月考英语试卷（解析版） 题型：完形填空
Learning experiences happen to us throughout our lives, and not too long ago, I had one that I would like to ________. This story began with a _______ three years ago. It's a story of pizza and being _______of buying ice cream with a US $20 bill.
I was going to Marblehead, Massachusetts, with my racing team on the highway and we were all ______Luckily, we saw a rest area ______. I had a brand-new US $ 20 bill, and I had ______ had that kind of cash before. Spending it on food ______to me like throwing it away.
We all rushed into the pizza line.______ I got a cheese pizza and drink. Halfway through the _______, I realized I had not actually ________any money to the cashier. I felt terrible. I just couldn't go back to the cashier and ______my stolen pizza. I would feel embarrassed.
I was so upset that I refused to give myself the_______of an ice cream in fear that someone would say, "Hey, Jeff, why don't you _______ the change from the pizza instead of that nice, new US $20 bill?" I was not so proud of my _______ now.
For the next two years, whenever I was ______of the "Pizza incident," I _______my eyes and said to myself, "Not gonna think about it, not gonna think about it…"
I think this ______ the saying, "A coward (懦夫) dies a thousand deaths, a hero dies _______." I was a coward and have felt______ about that incident at least a thousand times. If I had been a "hero" and gone ______up to pay for the pizza, then I would have felt a little embarrassed about it only once, or maybe twice.
1.A. introduce B. perform C. share D. explain
2.A. game B. trip C. party D. race
3.A. afraid of B. fond of C. careless in D. eager for
4.A. late B. hungry C. lost D. slow
5.A. inside B. behind C. below D. ahead
6.A. even B. once C. never D. ever
7.A. proved B. showed C. turned D. seemed
8.A. Gradually B. Finally C. Usually D. Lately
9.A. meal B. journey C. talk D. job
10.A. returned B. offered C. handed D. supplied
11.A. give away B. give back C. ask for D. pay for
12.A. pleasure B. chance C. idea D. effort
13.A. find B. receive 
C. use D. return
14.A. cash B. pizza C. ice cream D. change
15.A. blamed B. warned C. told D. reminded
16.A. fixed B. closed C. raised D. wiped
17.A. brings B. concerns C. impresses D. reflects
18.A. more B. less C. one D. none
19.A. terrible B. puzzled C. nervous D. curious
20.A. away B. back C. near D. out
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科目：高中英语 来源：广东省揭阳市2016-2017学年高二上学期综合训练（三）英语试卷（有答案） 题型：完形填空
I made a name for myself when I was about 26.
It never means anything_______to me, but of course I can’t say I am free from vanity（虚荣）. When a signing event was organized for my book at its_______sale or when I was invited to deliver a speech at a meeting, I would be___________and cheerful, especially if there were lots of participants.
_______, I have never been controlled by such_______, for I have my own idea of it. To me, a（n）_______remains popular only for three seconds. This morning somebody_______me on the way and said, “Ah, that’s Zhu Deyong!”I was glad to be_______by a stranger and enjoyed myself, “_______, I am famous!” But such enjoyments________only three seconds. He passed by and turned to the person walking with him, “What shall we have for lunch?” No ________of me any longer. Shall I________my life cherishing those three seconds? Is it necessary to make efforts to________such three-second enjoyments? No, I don’t want to.
As life is________and only comes around once, it is of great value to the person himself, but of no value to others. For most people, one’s name remains________only for three generations:one’s________generation, the second（your son may say “Ah, it’s my dad.”）and the third（your grandson may still________,“Ah, it’s my grandpa.”）If a member of the fourth generation is asked about you, he might be________,“Who is it?” If he is shown a picture of you, he might give it a glance, put it aside and________forget it. It amounts to nothing more than a________with an unknown name.
1.A. impressive B. reasonable C. appropriate D. important
2.A. unique B. first C. best D. final
3.A. happy B. upset C. hesitant D. nervous
4.A. Likewise（同样地） B. Therefore C. However D. Meanwhile
5.A. discouragements B. embarrassments C. excitements D. disappointments
6.A. speech B. name C. book D. event
7.A. saw B. hit C. patted D. introduced
8.A. spotted B. recognized C. noticed D. liked
9.A. Totally B. Above all C. Finally D. After all
10.A. maintained B. stayed C. lasted D. remained
11.A. mind B. idea C. thought D. memory
12.A. waste B. spare C. devote D. afford
13.A. reach B. acquire C. offer D. honor
14.A. easy B. ordinary C. tough D. short
15.A. welcome B. personal C. respectable D. known
16.A. past B. own C. future D. new
17.A. remember B. memorize C. remind D. believe
18.A. annoyed B. interested C. puzzled D. frightened
19.A. quickly B. seldom C. deliberately D. otherwise
20.A. friend B. writer C. grandpa D. stranger
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科目：高中英语 来源：2017届吉林省吉林市高三毕业班第三次调研测试英语试卷（解析版） 题型：短文填空
Being born and brought up in a village called Bruis, I lived a simple life with my father. I was 16 when one morning, Dad told me I could drive him into a______________village called Burbank, on condition that I took the car in to be ___________at a nearby garage. I readily accepted. I drove Dad into Burbank, and ___________to pick him up at 4 pm, then dropped off the car at the __________. With several hours to spare, l went to a theater.___________, when the last movie finished, it was six. I was two hours late!
I knew Dad would be angry if he__________I’d been watching movies. So I decided not to tell him the truth. When I__________there I apologized for being late, and told him I’d _________as quickly as I could, but that the car had needed a major repair. I’ll never forget the___________he gave me. “I’m disappointed you__________you have to lie to me, Jason.” Dad looked at me again. “When you didn’t _________, I called the garage to ask if there were any__________, and they told me you hadn’t yet picked up the car. “I felt____________as I weakly told him the real reason. A ___________passed through Dad as he listened attentively. “I’m angry with___________. I realize I’ve failed as a father. I’m going to walk home now and think seriously about____________I’ve gone wrong all these years.” “But Dad, it’s 18 miles!” My protests and apologies were _________. Dad walked home that day. I drove behind him,___________ him all the way, but he walked silently.
Seeing Dad in so much __________ and emotional pain was my most painful experience. However, it was ____the most successful lesson．I have never lied since.
1.A. small B. lonely C. distant D. familiar
2.A. kept B. repaired C. watched D. changed
3.A. agreed B. planned C. determined D. promised
4.A. village B. community C. theater D. garage
5.A. However B. Then C. Therefore D. Still
6.A. found out B. gave out C. figured out D. came out
7.A. went B. ran C. walked D. hurried
8.A. come B. left C. moved D. started
9.A. word B. appearance C. look D. face
10.A. find B. believe C. feel D. decide
11.A. turn around B. drive out C. go away D. turn up
12.A. questions B. problems C. mistakes D. faults
13.A. ashamed B. frightened C. nervous D. surprised
14.A. nervousness B. sadness C. silence D. thought
15.A. you B. myself C. me D. yourself
16.A. where B. how C. why D. when
17.A. meaningless B. useless C. helpless D. worthless
18.A. asking B. persuading C. begging D. following
19.A. natural B. practical C. personal D. physical
20.A. indeed B. always C. also D. almost
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