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The way people hold the belief that a fun-filled, pain-free lifestyle equals happiness actually reduces their chances of ever obtaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equal to happiness£¬then pain must be equal to unhappiness. But in fact£¬the opposite is true: more often than not things that lead to happiness contain some pain.
As a result£¬many people avoid the very attempts that are the source of true happiness£®They fear the pain inevitably (²»¿É±ÜÃâµØ) brought by such things as marriage£¬raising children£¬professional achievement, religious commitment, self-improvement£®
Ask a bachelor why he resists marriage even though he finds dating to be less and less satisfying. If he is honest£¬he will tell you that he is afraid of making a commitment£¬for commitment is in fact quite painful. The single life is filled with fun, adventure and excitement£®Marriage has such moments, but they are not its most distinguishing features.
Couples£¬with infant children, are lucky to get a whole night¡¯s sleep of a three-day vacation. We don¡¯t know any parent who would choose the word fun to describe raising children. But couples that decide not to have children ever know the joys of watching a child grow up or playing with a grandchild.
Understanding and accepting that true happiness has nothing to do with fun is one of the most liberating realizations. It liberates time: now we can devote more hours to activities that can really increase our happiness. It liberates money: buying that new car or those fancy clothes to increase our happiness now seems pointless. And it liberates us from envy: we now understand that all those who always have so much fun actually may not be happy at all.