10．Learning how to be patient with others can be challenging for some people．After all，not everybody is gifted with great patience．The good news is that it is something that can be learned and eventually perfected．
When the customer before you takes ages to pay for his or her groceries，you tap your foot impatiently and cough every now and then to remind the customer to move quickly；but no，he is still not hurrying up．It takes all of your power not to make a scene．However，if you imagine that customer to be someone you like，then you will find yourself not getting too annoyed，right？
So the next time you find yourself losing patience with somebody，simply think of that person to be someone you really adore and you r patience will last longer．
The second step on how to be patient with people involves whistling．When you whistle a happy tune，you are instantly in good spirits．You can hum（哼唱）your favorite song if you can't whistle-it really doesn't make a difference．What's important here is that you did something that makes you feel good．And when you feel good，you are more likely to be patient with the people around you．
When you're stressed，it's almost impossible to learn how to be patient with people．You've got to find a way to relax first．If you know you're going to be in a Situation where your patience will be tested，get yourself a massage（按摩）first．Remember：the more stressed you are，the faster you'll lose you r temper．
However，learning how to be patient with people is not a must in life．You've seen people who manage to survive day to day with unbelievably short tempers after all，
56．What's the main idea of the passage？（No more than l0words）Ways of learning to be patient．/How to be patient with others．
57．What does the underlined expression"make a scene"in Paragraph 2mean？（No more than 3words）Lose your temper．/Quarrel with others．/Getimpatient．/Get angry．
58．Why does the author think humming or whistling can help you get patient？（No more than l5words）Because it canhelp you feel good and get patient
59．What does the author advise you to do when you are getting stressed？（No more than 10words）To find a way to relax first
60．Do you think learning how to be patient with people is a must in life？Why？（No more than 20words）No，I don't think so．Because we've seen people who manage to survive day to day with unbelievably short tempers．．
分析 本文论述了人们要学会与人相处要有耐心，同时指出耐心也是对人们的一个大的挑战，文中对于如何应对挑战，如何让自己变得有耐心，提出了一些建议，文章最后指出耐心是人们的一种美德．
解答 56．Ways of learning to be patient．/How to be patient with others．根据开头一句Learning how to be patient with others can be challenging for some people．本文论述的一个核心话题是如何耐心地与人相处，所以标题可总结为Ways of learning to be patient．/How to be patient with others．
57．Lose your temper．/Quarrel with others．/Get impatient．/Get angry．
前面提到了你的一位顾客赖账，经提醒仍然不自觉还款，你努力控制的是不发脾气，结合后面的then you will find yourself not getting too annoyed，right一句由此推出make a scene的意思是Lose your temper．/Quarrel with others．/Get impatient．/Get angry．
58．Because it canhelp you feel good and get patient
根据第三段What's important here is that you did something that makes you feel good．可知，你吹口哨或者哼唱歌曲的目的是使你处于良好的情绪中，这样就会使你更有耐心，所以答案可总结为Because it canhelp you feel good and get patient．
59．To find a way to relax first
根据第四段前两句When you're stressed，it's almost impossible to learn how to be patient with people．You've got to find a way to relax first．可知，当你感到压抑的时候，你要试图找个方法放松自己；故答案为To find a way to relax first．
60．No，I don't think so．Because we've seen people who manage to survive day to day with unbelievably short tempers．
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