Question

Dear David,
My daughter will be five years old. She is happy, well-mannered, loving and pretty. She has attended a Montessori school since she was 16 months old and has made two friends. The three girls are always together, or talking with each other.
But recently the girls told my daughter that they would not play with her if she kept playing with the boy who was disliked by most of the class. My daughter always finds good things in others and insisted they play with him, too. Then one of the friends told my daughter she didn’t have straight hair and shouldn’t play with them. Then she started ignoring my daughter. My mother-in-law decided to iron my girl’s beautiful curly hair(卷发).
With her birthday coming, my child decided to invite her friends to her party. When I asked her why, she said because they were always together, but I know one of the girls will not attend her party. 
I’m concerned about her. I feel lost, not knowing how to help my child.
Jenny
Dear Jenny,
It’s always painful to a mother when someone hurts her child. Your daughter’s friends weren’t nice to her, but little kids are still learning how to get along with others. As a result, young friendships are often fleeting, even changing from day to day. Your daughter seems to be remarkably loving, outgoing and mature(成熟的) beyond her years. Perhaps you need to be proud of the way she treats people.
Ironing your daughter’s hair won’t send your daughter or the other girls a good message. It implies that there is something wrong with the way she is. You have no choice but to let your daughter know that one of the girls won’t be attending her birthday party. If she seems upset, remind her that other friends will be there. My guess is that she will rise to the occasion.
Hope this helps.
David
【小题1】What’s the mother’s problem?

A．Her daughter doesn’t respect other kids

B．Her daughter seems to be losing her friends

C．Her daughter cares too much about her friends

D．Her daughter doesn’t know how to deal with others

【小题2】When the daughter was asked not to play with that boy, she probably ____.

A．thought her friends were right.

B．felt lucky to have such good friends.

C．thought her friends shouldn’t have said that.

D．realized her friends were not popular with others.

【小题3】David used the underlined word“fleeting”to show that  _____.

A．kids value friendship

B．young friendships don’t last long

C．young friendships are very important

D．kids are good at dealing with others

【小题4】In David’s opinion, ironing the daughter’s hair _____.

A．is the right thing to do	B．will make her more popular.
C．will make her doubt the way she is.	D．will help her win back her friends.

Answer 1

【小题1】B
【小题2】C
【小题3】B
【小题4】C

解析试题分析：文章是两封信，一封是妈妈写给编辑的求助信，关于女儿和朋友的相处问题，一封是编辑的回信，给出了一些看法和建议。
【小题1】细节题：从第一封信的第二段的句子：Then one of the friends told my daughter she didn’t have straight hair and shouldn’t play with them. Then she started ignoring my daughter.可知这个妈妈的女儿正失去朋友。选B
【小题2】细节题：从第一封信的第二段的句子：My daughter always finds good things in others and insisted they play with him, too.可知女儿认为她们不该这么说，选C
【小题3】猜词题：从后面的句子：even changing from day to day.可知小孩的友谊不会持久的，选B
【小题4】推理题：从最后一段的句子：It implies that there is something wrong with the way she is.可知把女儿的头发烫直，会让她怀疑自己。选C
考点：考查书信类短文
点评：做题时可以结合自己的生活常识和经验，再通过逻辑推理和判断，理解文章的言外之意，从而揭示文章的深层涵义。推理判断题的答案不可能在文章中直接找到，因此推理时我们务必要忠于原文，在文章中寻找并确定可推论的依据，即：已知部分－推论的前提，从中推测出未知部分－推理的结论，切忌妄加评论，把自己的观点当成作者的观点。