| A. Allow for personal space B. Show willingness to negotiate C. Learn from conflict D. Keep yourself calm E. Focus on finding a solution F. Talk about the mistakes |
Ways to Deal with Conflict
76.
In heated situations, we have a tendency to speak first and think after. This results in aggression which aggravates (使恶化) the conflict. Instead, pause before you speak, think about what the person has said to you, and respond appropriately. By giving yourself this time to think, you cool down, and you are less likely to speak with anger. A lot of the time, the other people may want to argue for the sake of arguing.
77.
Everyone knows that people make mistakes because it’s human nature. However, it also seems to be human nature to fight acceptance of those mistakes. Conflicts often arise from mistakes, so it’s best to be upfront and honest about them. Identify the mistake that led to the conflict.
78.
In conflict, if someone walks away, allow him to do that. Don’t follow the person you’re in conflict with into another room because you haven’t said all you want to say. You wouldn’t want him following you if you felt the need to leave the situation. Also, don’t hover too close to the person you’re in conflict with. Allow him room to breathe. Don’t make him feel as if you’re backing him into a corner.
79.
It is very easy to point the finger or play the blame game when trouble arises. As easy as it is, it is not useful or productive. The main concern is to find a solution to the problem, not to determine who was wrong. If the problem is related to the work itself, keep the conversation focused on exactly what is wrong, and what can be done to fix it.
80.
Be open to the idea of compromise and let the other person know this. Before you approach the conversation, be confident in your stance and know what you are willing to negotiate on and what you feel strongly should not be compromised. Do your best to be flexible. Look for a way to come to a conclusion that satisfies both parties.
科目：高中英语 来源：陕西省长安一中2012届高三第四次教学质量检测英语试题 题型：053
根据短文内容，从下框的A－F选项中选出能概括每一段主题的最佳选项。
A．Meaning of forgiveness
B．Try to put yourself in that person's shoes
C．Allow peace to enter your life
D．Understand your responsibility
E．Definition of forgiveness
F．Think about the advantages and disadvantages
1
We've all been hurt by another person at some time or another－we were treated badly, trust was broken and hearts were hurt．And while this pain is normal, sometimes that pain continues for too long．We experience the pain over and over, and hate a hard time letting go．This causes problems．It not only causes us to be unhappy, but can ruin relationships, distract(使分心)us from work and family and other important things, make us unwilling to open up to new things and people We get trapped in a cycle of anger and hurt, and miss out on the beauty of life as it happens．We need to learn to let go．We need to be able to forgive, so we can move on and be happy．It's not easy, but you can learn to do it．
2
What problems does this pain cause you? Does it affect your relationship with this person? With others? Does it affect work or family? Does it stop you from realizing, your dreams, or becoming a better person? Does it make you unhappy? Think of all these problems, and realize you need to change．Then think of the benefits of forgiveness-how it will make you happier, free you from the past and improve things with your relationships and life in general．
3
Try to understand why the person did what he did．What could he have been thinking, and what could have happened to him in the past to make him do what he did? What could he have felt as he did it, and what did he feel afterward? How does he feel now? You aren't saying what he did is right, but are instead trying to Understand．
4
Try to figure out how you could have been partly responsible for what happened．What could you have done to prevent it, and how can you prevent it from happening next time? This isn't to say you are taking all the blame, or taking responsibility away from the other person, but to realize that we are not victims but participants in life．
5
As you focus on the present, try focusing on your breathing．Imagine each breath going out is the pain and the past, and imagine each breath coming in is peace, entering you and filling you up．
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科目：高中英语 来源： 题型：阅读理解
The earliest films are quite different from the present ones.They were very short，lasting only one minute.To see simple action films of trains，crowds on the street and similar subjects，people needed to pay only one cent.
Later，a new method was used to produce magical effect and to tie a story together.The method was to put the beginning of one scene upon the end of the scene before.In 1903 a film was made about a train robbery.Many of the actions took place at the same time.The scenes moved smoothly from one to another.This was the earliest successful film.In that film，scenes filmed at different places and times were put together naturally.
A short time later，there appeared a whole hour of short comedy，travel and so on.These films were usually simple，rough and even vulgar.
In the beginning，actors in the films weren’t allowed to have their names known publicly.It was because producers were afraid actors would ask for more money once they became well known.But later producers found that films with popular actors in them could be sold at a higher price than those without popular actors in them.After 1910，actors were allowed to use their own names and won high fame.
51.Which of the following does not describe the character of the oldest films?
A.The actions in the films were not complex.
B.People didn’t need to pay much money to see a film.
C.The films didn’t show the people on the street to the audience.
D.The films didn’t last long.
52.From the passage which of the following statements are about the first most successful film?
a.It was made in 1903.
b.It was about a robbing happening in a train.
c.A new method was used to make the film.
d.Many actions happened at the same time but people could see them one by one in the film.
e.All the actions were filmed in a train.
f.There was no sound in the film.
g.The film lasted shorter than an hour.
A.a，b，c，d，e，f，g B.a，b，c，d，g
C.a，b，d，e，f D.a，b，c，d，e，g
53.The underlined word“vulgar”in the third paragraph means______.
A.ill mannered，in bad taste B.gentle manned，in good taste
C.interesting D.educative
54.Why did producers not allow actors to make their names famous to the public in the beginning?
A.Fame is a magnifying（放大）glass.
B.Fame is the last infirmity（weakness）of noble minds.
C.The more a man has，the more he wants.
D.The more famous one is，the more he gets.
55.Which is true according to the passage?
A.The more famous the actors are，the better a film must be.
B.Since 1910 actors have been more and more famous.
C.The films at present last as long as the old ones.
D.Films began during last century.
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Read the following passage and choose the most suitable heading from A-F for each paragraph. There is one extra heading which you do not need.
| A. Allow for personal space B. Show willingness to negotiate C. Learn from conflict D. Keep yourself calm E. Focus on finding a solution F. Talk about the mistakes |
Ways to Deal with Conflict
76.
In heated situations, we have a tendency to speak first and think after. This results in aggression which aggravates (使恶化) the conflict. Instead, pause before you speak, think about what the person has said to you, and respond appropriately. By giving yourself this time to think, you cool down, and you are less likely to speak with anger. A lot of the time, the other people may want to argue for the sake of arguing.
77.
Everyone knows that people make mistakes because it’s human nature. However, it also seems to be human nature to fight acceptance of those mistakes. Conflicts often arise from mistakes, so it’s best to be upfront and honest about them. Identify the mistake that led to the conflict.
78.
In conflict, if someone walks away, allow him to do that. Don’t follow the person you’re in conflict with into another room because you haven’t said all you want to say. You wouldn’t want him following you if you felt the need to leave the situation. Also, don’t hover too close to the person you’re in conflict with. Allow him room to breathe. Don’t make him feel as if you’re backing him into a corner.
79.
It is very easy to point the finger or play the blame game when trouble arises. As easy as it is, it is not useful or productive. The main concern is to find a solution to the problem, not to determine who was wrong. If the problem is related to the work itself, keep the conversation focused on exactly what is wrong, and what can be done to fix it.
80.
Be open to the idea of compromise and let the other person know this. Before you approach the conversation, be confident in your stance and know what you are willing to negotiate on and what you feel strongly should not be compromised. Do your best to be flexible. Look for a way to come to a conclusion that satisfies both parties.
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Department of Homeland Security
U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services I – 797 C, Notice of Action
| RECEIPT NUMBER CCC0729197862 | CASE TYPE I – 901 – Application | ||
| RECEIVED DATE July 18,2007 | PRIORITY DATE | APPLECANT SEVIS ID: N0004469915 YITIAN CHEN | |
| NOTICE DATE JULY 18,2007 | PAGE 1 of 1 | ASC CODE N/A | |
| YITIAN CHEN 2008 HUANGXING ROAD SHANGHAI, 200034 CHINA, PEOPLES REPUBLIC OF NF 0311 | NOTICE TYPE: Receipt Notice Amount Received: $ 100.00 | ||
| YITIAN CHEN Your I – 901 fee transmittal form has been received. Please notify us immediately if any of the above information is incorrect. This fee payment is valid only for your particular course of study or program. If you fall out of status, apply for a new F – 1, F – 3. M – 1, M – 3 or J – 1 non – immigrant visa, or if you want to change your non – immigrant category to an F – 1, F – 3, M – 3 or J – 1, you may be required to pay another fee. Bring this receipt to the consulate as proof of payment of the SEVIS fee. Applicant Status: J – 1 Receipt Copy: 01 Date of Birth: 05/25/1975 Amount Received : $ 100.00 Program Number: P – 1 – 04576 | |||
| I – 901 Student / Exchange Visitor Processing Fee P. O. Box 970020 St. Louis, MO 63197 – 0020 Customer Service Telephone: 785 – 330 – 1048 This form issued by U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement | |||
Form I – 797C （Rev. 01/31/05）
1．What does this table allow you to do?
A．To apply for a visit to America.
B．To apply for immigration to America.
C．To apply for a visit to the People’s Republic of China.
D．To apply for immigration to the People’s Republic of China.
2．You can get to the destination on .
A．May 25,1975 B．January 31, 2005
C．June 18,2007 D．July 18, 2007
3．Suppose you plan to change your applicant status, you have to .
A．notify U. S. Citizenship and Immigration Services immediately
B．pay another fee as required
C．apply for a new F – 1, F – 3. M – 1, M – 3 or J – 1 non – immigrant visa
D．make a phone call to the Customer Service
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