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6.How to be a good listener
Everyone loves a good listener.But there are more reasons to develop the skill of listening than to win hearts or popularity contests.
Listening heals hurts and builds bridges.It gives us the ability to understand and empathize,to view the world from our own point.It can bring us wisdom over and above mere intelligence.But most importantly,it allows us to give the people around us the gifts they crave(渴望)most-a sense of worth.
As it turns out,there's more to good listening than just keeping quiet and allowing someone to speak.Effective listening is actually a combination of two key communication skills:listening and verifying(核实,证实).
Even when we've managed to hear a person's entire message,we often interpret it wrong-according to our own understanding,experience,or prejudice.
As an effective listener,your goal is to hear and absorb what another has to say in exactly the way they mean it to be understood.Only then can you respond properly.
This is much easier read than done,so here are a few helpful tips:
1.Give the speaker your full attention.
Stop talking and remove all distractions.Turn off the TV,your phone,or computer.Watch your body language.The way you look at the speaker,or the way you stand or sit,makes a huge difference.The right listening body language communicates that we are listening openly and attentively,and puts the other person at ease.
2.Be patient.
Not everyone is a gifted speaker.Some people take longer to find the right word to make a point.Others are too worried to get their message across properly.If necessary,ask the speaker to explain further.It will help him/her speak more exactly and it will help you hear and understand better.
3.Keep your emotions in check.
If what someone is saying creates an emotional response in you,make an extra effort to listen carefully.When we're angry,frightened or upset,we often miss key parts of what is being said.
4.Hold your fire.
Don't jump to conclusions immediately.A good listener doesn't react until comprehension is complete.If you respond in a way that makes the other person defensive,even if you"win"the argument,you may lose something far more valuable.
5.Even if you think you understand,verify.
Never assume you got the message right.Pause,think about what was said,and then ask"Is this what you meant?"or"Am I understanding this right?"
6.Empathize
Take a moment to stand in the other person's shoes,to look at the situation from his/her point of view especially when you're being told something personal or painful,or something you strongly disagree with.The more shoes you are able to successfully stand in within your life time,the less puzzled you'll find your life and relationships to be.
(71)Effects/Advantages/Benefits of good listening(72)Healing hurts.
Building (73)bridges.
Allowing us to (74)understand and empathize,and viewing the world in an all-round way.
Bringing us wisdom over and above mere intelligence.
(75)Making the people around us feel worthy.
Components of effective listeningGood listening consists of two key communication skills:(76)listening and verifying.
(77)Ways/Tips to be a good listenerListening to the speaker openly and (78)attentively.
Trying to be a (79)patient listener.
Avoiding being affected by your emotions.
Waiting before you take actions.
Verifying.
(80)Empathizing.

分析 本文主要讲述了要怎样做才能当一个好的听众,给出了六条建议.

解答 71.Effects/Advantages/Benefits 总结归纳题.根据第二段Listening heals hurts and builds bridges.It gives us the ability to understand and empathize,to view the world from our own point.It can bring us wisdom over and above mere intelligence.But most importantly,it allows us to give the people around us the gifts they crave most-a sense of worth可知,本段主要讲听的好处.正确答案是:Effects/Advantages/Benefits.
72.Healing 词形转化题.根据第二段第一句Listening heals hurts可知,听可以治愈创伤.正确答案是:Healing.
73.bridges 原词再现题.根据第二段第一句builds bridges.正确答案是:bridges.
74.understand 原词再现题.根据第二段第It gives us the ability to understand and empathize,to view the world from our own point可知,它给了我们理解,产生共鸣,从我们的观点看世界的能力.正确答案是:understand.
75.Making 意义转换题.根据第二段最后一句it allows us to give the people around us the gifts they crave (渴望) most-a sense of worth可知,倾听让周围的人有认同感,故使用making the people around us feel worthy.正确答案是:Making.
76.listening 原词再现题.根据第三段最后Effective listening is actually a combination of two key communication skills:listening and verifying可知,有效地听实际上是两关键交流技能的联合:听和证实.正确答案是:listening.
77.Ways/Tips 原词再现题.根据第六段This is much easier read than done,so here are a few helpful tips可知,读比做容易,这儿是几条有用的建议.正确答案是:Ways/Tips.
78.attentively 原词再现题.根据倒数第六段第三行The right listening body language communicates that we are listening openly and attentively可知,正确聆听的身体语言传达我们在公开专注地聆听.正确答案是:attentively.
79.patient 原词再现题.根据第2个建议Be patient可知,就是要做一个耐心的倾听者.正确答案是:patient.
80.Empathizing 词形转化题.根据第六个建议Empathize可知,产生共鸣.正确答案是:Empathizing.

点评 解答任务型阅读理解题,首先对原文材料迅速浏览,掌握全文的主旨大意.因为阅读理解题一般没有标题,所以,速读全文,抓住中心主旨很有必要,在速读的过程中,应尽可能多地捕获信息材料.其次,细读题材,各个击破.掌握全文的大意之后,细细阅读每篇材料后的问题,弄清每题要求后,带着问题,再回到原文中去寻找、捕获有关信息.最后,要善于抓住每段的主题句,阅读时,要有较强的针对性.对于捕获到的信息,要做认真分析,仔细推敲,理解透彻,只有这样,针对题目要求,才能做到稳、准.

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