So many of us hold on to little complaints that may have come from an argument, a misunderstanding, the way we were raised, or some other painful events. Stubbornly, we wait for someone else to reach out to us—believing this is the only way we can forgive or rekindle a friendship or family relationship.
A friend of mine, recently told me that she hadn't spoken to her son in almost three years. She said that she and her son had had a disagreement about his wife and that she wouldn't speak to him again unless he called first. When I suggested that she be the one to reach out, she said, “I can't do that. He's the one who should apologize.” After a little gentle encouragement, however, she did decide to be the first one to reach out. To her amazement, her son was grateful for her willingness to call and offered an apology of his own. As is usually the case when someone takes the chance and reaches out, everyone wins.
Whenever we hold on to our anger, we turn “small stuff(问题)” into really “big stuff” in our minds. We start to believe that our positions are more important than our happiness. They are not. If you want to be a more peaceful person you must understand that being right is almost never more important than allowing yourself to be happy. The way to be happy is to let go, and reach out. Let other people be right. This doesn't mean that you're wrong. Everything will be fine. You'll experience the peace of letting go, as well as the joy of letting others be right.
You'll also notice that, as you reach out and let others be “right,” they will become less defensive and more loving toward you. They might even reach back. But, if for some reason they don't, that's okay too. You'll have the inner satisfaction of knowing that you have done your part to create a more loving world, and certainly you'll be more peaceful yourself.
1.The underlined word “rekindle” in Paragraph 1 probably means “________”.
A. recover B. develop
C. accept D. replace
2.In the author's opinion, we hold on to our anger often because we think ________.
A. we can turn small issues into big ones
B. our positions are higher than others
C. our own opinions matter most
D. others will be less defensive
3.The best thing to do after a quarrel is to ______.
A. let go of our own rights
B. realize that you are wrong
C. expect others to give in
D. apologize to others first
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假如你是班长李华, 你的笔友Paul来邮件询问你班同学开展“低碳生活”的活动情况. 请根据下列要点用英语给他回复邮件。
1. 节约 (水、电、纸);
2. 分类回收垃圾;
3. 低碳交通。
参考词汇:低碳生活: low-carbon lifestyle
注意:1. 词数100左右。
2. 可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
3. 开头和结尾已为你写好,不计入总词数。
Dear Paul,
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Sincerely
Li Hua
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The Great Fire of London started in the very early hours of 2 September 1666.In four days it destroyed more than three-quarters of the old city, where most of the houses were wooden and close together.Over one hundred people became homeless, but only a few lost their lives.
The fire started on Sunday morning in the house of the King’s baker in Pudding Lane.The baker, with his wife and family, was able to get out through a window into the roof.A strong wind blew the fire from the bakery into a small hotel next door.Then it spread quickly into Thames Street.That was the beginning.
By eight o’clock three hundred houses were on fire.On Monday nearly a kilometer of the city was burning along the River Thames.Tuesday was the worst day.The fire destroyed many well-known buildings, old St Paul’s and the Guildhall were among them.
Samuel Pepys, the famous writer, wrote about the fire, “People threw their things into the river.Many poor people stayed in their houses until the last moment.Birds fell out of the air because of the heat.”
The fire stopped only when the King finally ordered people to destroy hundreds of buildings in the path of the fire.With nothing left to burn, the fire became weak and finally died out.
After the fire, Christopher Wren, the architect(建筑师), wanted a city with wider streets and fine new houses of stone. In fact, the streets are still narrow, but he did build more than fifty churches, among them was the new St Paul’s Cathedral.
The fire caused great pain and loss, but after it London was a better place: a city for the future and not just of the past.
1.The fire began in ________.
A. a hotel B. the palace
C. Pudding Lane D. Thames Street
2.The underlined word ‘family’ in the second paragraph means ________.
A. home B. children
C. wife and husband D. wife and children
3.It seems that the writer of the text was most sorry for the fact that ________.
A. some people lost their lives
B. the birds in the sky were killed by the fire
C. many famous buildings were destroyed
D. the King’s bakery was burned down
4.Why did the writer cite(引用) Samuel Pepys?
A. Because Pepys was among those putting out the fire.
B. Because Pepys also wrote about the fire.
C. To show that poor people suffered most.
D. To give the reader a clearer picture of the fire.
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Happiness depends upon ourselves
I stared at the word “Happiness”, my creative-writing assignment (作业) about emotion, on my blank(空白的) paper. No format(格式) at all.
It was not the lack of structure (结构)______ the word “happiness” that was ______ me. Anything else I could have ______ well, say, jealousy (嫉妒) or pain. But I was ______to write about happiness.
There was a ______ at my bedroom door. “Hey, Sarah?” asked a small voice. “Can I come in?” “Rachie.” I said to my five-year-old sister. “I’m ______ now.”
“But this is important.”
I ______. “Okay, then.” Rachie came in. “Um, I caught my favourite butterfly. It’s ______ pretty. But I let it go because Mommy said it would die.” “So, what’s the ______?” I asked. “Well,” she whispered ______ she were about to share a deep ______. “When I set it free, I was ______. Does that make me a mean person?” I ______. “Of course not. You were just happy it was free.” I gave her a ______ . “Now I have work to do.” “What work?” she asked. I ______ my blank paper. “I have to write about happiness.” “Oh, that’s easy.” “What’s your happiness?” I asked. She thought a few seconds. “Butterflies,” she said ______ and left.
Butterflies! I thought about our ______. She was happy to catch the butterfly and happy to see it go. Maybe she was right. Butterflies ______ nothing but happiness. Maybe butterflies aren’t exactly the ______ to happiness, but there is something to be said about the simple things in ______ . And with that, I started to write.
1.A. or B. but C. and D. nor
2.A. bothering B. inspiring C. surprising D. attracting
3.A. analyzed B. explained C. handled D. adjusted
4.A. reminded B. supposed C. persuaded D. prepared
5.A. knock B. call C. push D. beat
6.A. annoyed B. dizzy C. puzzled D. busy
7.A. begged B. sighed C. urged D. refused
8.A. equally B. hardly C. really D. slightly
9.A. effect B. result C. decision D. problem
10.A. as if B. only if C. so that D. in case
11.A. sorrow B. secret C. feeling D. pain
12.A. awful B. excited C. glad D. disappointed
13.A. argued B. nodded C. added D. smiled
14.A. hug B. tip C. look D. hand
15.A. read through B. glanced at C. set down D. turned over
16.A. angrily B. blindly C. anxiously D. simply
17.A. conversation B. conclusion C. debate D. interview[
18.A. discover B. bring C. benefit D. expect
19.A. barrier B. introduction C. key D. limit
20.A. need B. return C. work D. life
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1.In autumn,the days are shorter and the temperature ______.
2.It’s already midnight.Who ________ so much noise outside?
3.—What a mess your room is!
—Sorry.I ______ it up right now.
4.He _______ his hand into the air to get my attention and soon I noticed him.
5.─Why are you in such a hurry?
─My father’s car _______ down on the way.I have to go to help him.
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I was going to do some shopping in Golden Eagle,but________watching TV at home because of tiredness.
A. ended up B. took up
C. got down D. settled down
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My English teacher’s humor was ______ make every student burst into laughter.
A. so as to B. such as to
C. such that D. so that
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Many people travel during the holiday season but do not make sure that their houses and homes 1. (protect). Crimes go up 2. (rapid) during the winter and summer holiday seasons. Here are some things 3. you should keep in mind when you go on holiday.
Always give 4. (strange) the feeling that you are at home. Have the snow 5. (clean) off your stairs or out of your driveway during the winter season. You might ask someone to park 6.car in your driveway.
Tell your newspaper deliverer that you are not at home.7. (have) a pile of newspapers and other mail on your doorsteps tells people that you are not at home, so you could also have a neighbor or a relative get your mail every day.
Fix a timer(定时器) in some of your rooms turns lights on and 8.during different time of 9. day. Some TVs also come with a timer that you could set to be turned on during certain time. Have motion(运动)sensitive lights outside your house that keep thieves away 10.you are not at home.
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假如你是李华。最近你所居住的涉外小区里车辆乱停乱放现象很严重。请你根据所给提示,给小区负责人史密斯先生写一封信反应这个问题。要点包括:
1.分析原因
2.你的建议
注意:1.词数100左右(开头和结尾已经给出,不计入总词数);
2.可根据内容适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
Dear Mr Smith,
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Yours,
Li Hua
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