Pushing children too hard is a really big social problem that seems to be getting worse.Now we have 6-month-olds in music classes and swimming classes.Parents fear that if other children are attending these classes,they will be holding their own children back if they do not enroll,too.
The other extreme,simply taking a laissez-faire approach and letting children do—or refuse to do—whatever they want,is not the answer either,of course.
Dr Taylor emphasizes that parents need to push their children based on what is best for the children,not what is best for themselves.If children understand that an activity is in their best interests,then they will accept it, he finds.
Dr Taylor and other family experts remain pessimistic about the possibilities for widespread social change.“The force of our popular culture,driven by money and superficial(表面上的) values,cannot be resisted,” he says.But change can take place at a“micro-level,” in families and schools.
When changes do occur,the rewards can benefit everyone in the family.One mother supporting this new approach toward parenting mentions the advantages her family experienced after her children cut back on activities.“The biggest thing is that since we have done this,we are rested,” she says.“Not only are our kids rested,because they're not in a ton of stuff, but my husband and I are rested,because we're not driving them everywhere.We weren’t living in the moment when we were always busy.We were living by the schedule.The return on our investment of spending time together has been enormous.”
48. One of the reasons why parents push children so hard is that they .
A. believe in early development in children
B. are too busy to take care of their children
C. don't want their children to lag behindw(w w.ks&5 u.c*o m
D. want to repeat what their parents did to them
49. The phrase“a laissez-faire approach”(in Line 1,Paragraph 2)most probably refers to .
A. denying them what they need
B. controlling children in a flexible way
C. developing a keen interest in children
D. letting children do whatever they want
50. The best way to encourage children to work hard is .
A. to make them believe it’s in their best interests
B. to consider the matter from parents' standpoint
C. to emphasize the importance of hard work from time to time
D. to make it interesting and enjoyable to them
51.What the author doesn’t approve of in the essay is _______.
A. achieving a balance between pushing the children too hard and leaving them alone
B. going from one extreme of pushing children too hard to the other of leaving them alone
C. involving children in activity that will probably contribute to their development
D. enrolling them in music and swimming classes at the very early age
52. The new approach toward parenting mentioned in the passage most likely refers to _______.
A. relieving children’s hard work and unnecessary activity
B. resisting the superficial values of pop culture
C. reducing more activity off their school schedule
D. spending more time with their children
科目:高中英语 来源: 题型:阅读理解
Once I went to a railway station near New York. I 36 to take the night train there. 37 of people were pushing into the 38 train. I found a railway official and asked him if I could get a place in a sleeping car, 39 he said sharply, “No, you can’t. The train is full. Don’t 40 me any more.”
I was very 41 indeed. I said to the friend who was with me, “ he talked to me like this 42 he doesn’t know that I am a famous writer. If he knew…But before I could 43 my sentence my friend said, “Don’t be 44 . How could that help you? Whoever you are, there are no 45 seats on the train.” I was 46 he was wrong, so I went up to the same official again and told him that I was Mark Twain. But all he said, “I told you not to trouble me any more.”
Just then I 47 a young porter in a sleeping car looking at me, He whispered something to the train conductor, and that conductor came over to me and said very 48 , “ Can I help you, sir?” “ I 49 do.” I answered.
The porter took out boxes and we got on to the train. When the porter saw we were comfortably 50 in our places, he said, “Now. Is there anything you want, sir? Because you can have whatever you 51 .”
After the porter had gone, my friend looked 52 . He said. “I am 53 sorry I said those things to you just now…” Just then the porter came again and said. “ Oh. Sir, I 54 you immediately”. “Really?” I said happily, “of course”, he said. “I recognized you the 55 I saw you and told the conductor that you are Mr Smith, the mayor of New York City.”
A. managed B. failed C. used D. happened
A. Some B. Most C. Crowds D. Many
A. night B. busy C. full D. leaving
A. but B. and C. though D. where
A. ask B. trouble C. follow D. strike
A. nervous B. uneasy C. hurt D. busy
A. as if B. since C. suppose D. because
A. complete B. continue C. make D. speak
A. upset B. sad C. foolish D. discouraged
A. more B. enough C. our D. empty
A. wondering B. sure C. told D. thinking
A. met B. noticed C. remembered D. knew
A. loudly B. calmly C. politely D. slowly
A. can B. shall C. certainly D. must
A. seating B. settled C. sleeping D. drinking
A. take B. bring C. like D. buy
A. surprised B. ashamed C. sorrowful D. anxious
A. awfully B. much C. more D. too much
A. admired B. realized C. recognized D. respected
A. moments B. while C. minute D. soon
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科目:高中英语 来源: 题型:阅读理解
I needed to get some money so, after Christmas, I took a job in the clothes department at Graham's for the first fortnight of the January sale.I can't say that I enjoyed it, but it was an experience I'll never forget.
I could never understand why there were so many things in the sales, where did they all come from? Now I know the secret! Firstly, there is the special winter stock (货物) and the stock that people buy all the year round; some of these things are slightly reduced.Secondly, there are the summer clothes they couldn't sell last year; these are heavily reduced to clear them.Thirdly, there are cheap clothes bought in specially for the sales; these are put out at high prices ten days before the sale begins and then are reduced by 60% in the sale.Clever! Lastly, they buy in “seconds”(clothes not in perfect condition) for the sale and they are sold very cheaply.
When I arrived half an hour before opening on the first day of the sale, there was already a queue around three sides of the building.This made me very nervous.
When the big moment arrived to open the doors, the security guards looking less confident than usual, came up to them, keys in hand.The moment they had unlocked the doors, they hid behind the doors for protection as the noisy crowd charged in.I couldn't believe my eyes; this wasn't shopping, it was a battlefield! One poor lady couldn't keep her feet and was knocked over by people pushing from behind.
Clothes were flying in all directions as people searched for the sizes, colours and styles they wanted.Quarrels broke out.Mothers were using their small children to crawl through people's legs and get hold of things they couldn't get near themselves.
Within minutes I had half a dozen people pushing clothes under my nose; each wanting to be the first served.Where had the famous English queue gone? The whole day continued like that, but I kept my temper81 was taking money hand over fist and began to realize why twice a year, Graham's were happy to turn their expensive store into a battlefield like this.
In the sale fever; people were spending money like water without thinking whether they needed what they were buying.As long as it was a bargain it was OK.You won't believe this.But as soon as I got home I crashed out for four hours.Then I had dinner and went back to bed, fearing the sound of the alarm which would tell me to get ready for the second day of the sale.
What kind of clothes is likely to be s0ld 5% cheaper?
A.Last summer's clothes,
B.Clothes not in perfect condition.
C.Clothes bought in specially for the sales.
D.Clothes for winter.
Which of the following statements is true?
A.The customers gave up the queuing, for which the English are famous.
B.The customers kept their temper while looking for clothes they wanted.
C.Small children enjoyed crawling though people's legs.
D.The security guards were fearless of the crowd.
In the author's opinion, why were Gradhani's happy to make, their expensive store into a "battlefield"?
A.There were too many clothes and they wanted to clear them in the sales.
B.They were eager to show that they were clever at doing business.
C.They could take the chance to raise the prices of all their clothes.
D.They wanted to make more money by having sales.
The expression "crashed out" means _____.
A.chatted with her friends B.slept soundly
C.broke down D.dined out
What would be the best title for the passage?
A.The Best Bargain. B.Hunting for a Job.
C.Sale Fever. D.A Pleasant Fortnight.
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科目:高中英语 来源:2012-2013学年山东省高三学情调查英语卷(解析版) 题型:阅读理解
阅读表达(共5小题, 每小题3分, 满分15分)
Let me tell you about five of the enemies we face from within.The first enemy that you’ve got to destroy before it destroys you is indifference.What a tragic disease this is! “Ho-hum,let it slide. I’ll just drift along.” Here’s one problem with drifting:you can’t drift your way to the top of the mountain.
The second enemy we face is indecision(优柔寡断). Indecision is the thief of opportunity and enterprise.It will steal your chances for a better future.Take a sword to this enemy.
The third enemy inside is doubt.Sure,there’s room for healthy skepticism.You can’t believe everything.But you also can’t let doubt take over.Many people doubt the past, doubt the future,doubt each other,doubt the government,doubt the possibilities and doubt the opportunities. , they doubt themselves.I’m telling you,doubt will destroy your life and your chances of success.It will empty both your bank account and your heart.Doubt is all enemy.Get rid of it.
The fourth enemy within is worry.We’ve all got to worry some.Just don’t let it conquer you.Instead, let it alarm you.Worry can be useful.If you step off the curb (路边) in New York City and a taxi is coming,you’ve got to worry.But you can’t let worry loose like a mad dog that drives you into a small corner.Here’s what you’ve got to do with your worries:drive them into a small corner. Whatever is out to get you,you’ve got to get it.Whatever is pushing on you, you’ve got to push back.
The fifth enemy is overcaution. It is the timid (胆小的) approach to life.Timidity is not a virtue;it’s an illness.If you let it go,it’ll conquer you.Timid people don’t get promoted.They don’t advance and grow and become powerful in the marketplace.You’ve got to avoid overcaution.
1.What’s the best title for this passage? (Within 8 words)
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2.List three enemies inside that might prevent you from getting promoted.(Within 5 words)
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3.Fill in the blank in Paragraph 3 with proper words or phrases.(Within 5 words)
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4.Which sentence in the text is the closest in meaning to the following one?
However,you shouldn’t be forced into a small room by the worry beyond control.
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5.Translate the underlined sentence in Paragraph 4 into Chinese.
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科目:高中英语 来源:2012-2013学年河南省灵宝市高三上学期第一次质量检测英语试卷(解析版) 题型:完型填空
The three superstars were arriving at the airport and a large crowd of young people had already gathered there to welcome them.The police found it 36 to keep order after the plane landed and the performers 37 .They smiled and waved cheerfully at everybody.Dressed in the same pink shirts and light blue trousers, with long hair and musical instruments over their shoulders, they all looked 38 .
Although there were many policemen 39 , the Blare were not able to get to their waiting car _40__ at all. Word spread that they had composed a new song which would be _41 when they performed at the concert that evening.They were now 42 _ with loud cries of " Play your new song! Play your new song!"
When the stars prepared to sing as the 43 for getting away, even the policemen looked 44 , too. The fans settled down and listened to the first 45 _ of the new song.Once it was over, everyone started jumping, clapping and shouting _46 . Several young women even fainted(昏倒) with excitement and were carried away immediately by the 47 standing by. The fans were greedy for more, 48 a repeat performance.Once again, the performers had no choice but to 49 , but when they were asked for still another song, they cheerfully but firmly refused.Closely 50 by the policemen, they walked towards their car some distance 51 . The fans pushed forward, but the policemen, _ 52 arm, prevented anyone getting trough. It took the stars quite a long time to reach their 53 !
Finally, however, they all got in and were just about to leave when a young woman, who had somehow 54 to get past the policemen, jumped onto the roof of the car.She shouted loudly and crazily as two policemen dragged her away and the car started to move very slowly through the 55 crowd.She had just wanted to have a photo taken with the stars !
1. A.dangerous B.terrible C.impossible D.difficult
2. A.arrived B.appeared C.left D.settled
3. A.famous B.nervous C.alike D.special
4. A.present B.enough C.available D.serious
5. A.successfully B.completely C.easily D.directly
6. A.heard B.broadcast C.received D.tried
7. A.covered B.greeted C.crowded D.called
8. A.way B.excuse C.gift D.price
9. A.pleased B.surprised C.puzzled D.worried
10. A.scene B.part C.sound D.performance
11. A.loudly B.madly C.strangely D.proudly
12. A.doctors B.fans C.policemen D.workers
13. A.signing B.enjoying C.suggesting D.demanding
14. A.give cut B.give away C.give in D.give up
15. A.surrounded B.followed C.watched D.supported
16. A.out B.away C.apart D.off
17. A.stood B.fought C.protected D.locked
18. A.car B.theatre C.hotel D.group
19. A.attempted B.managed C.started D.rushed
20. A.shouting B.crying C.cheering D.pushing
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科目:高中英语 来源:2015届江苏省高一上学期期中考试英语试卷(解析版) 题型:阅读理解
It was the first snow of winter — an exciting day for every child but not for most teachers. Up until now, I had been able to dress myself for recess(课间休息), but today I would need some help. Miss Finlayson, my kindergarten teacher, had been through first snow days many times in her long career, but I think she may still remember this one.
I managed to get into my wool snow pants. But I struggled with my jacket because it didn’t fit well. It was a hand-me-down from my brother, and it made me wonder why I had to wear his ugly clothes. At least my hat and matching scarf(围巾) were mine, and they were quite pretty. Finally it was time to have Miss Finlayson help me with my boots(靴子). In her calm, motherly voice she said, "By the end of winter, you will be able to put on your own boots.” I didn’t realize at the time that this was more a statement of hope than of confidence.
I handed her my boots and stuck out my foot. Like most children, I expected the adult to do all the work. After much wiggling and pushing, she managed to get first one into place and then, with a sigh, worked the second one on too.
I announced,“They’re on the wrong feet.” With the grace that only experience can bring,she struggled to get the boots off and went through the joyless task of putting them on again. Then I said,“These aren’t my boots, you know.” As she pulled the offending boots from my feet, she still managed to look both helpful and interested. Once they were off, I said,“They are my brother’s boots. My mother makes me wear them, and I hate them!” Somehow, from long years of practice, she managed to act as though I wasn’t an annoying(烦人的) little girl.She pushed and shoved, less gently this time, and the boots were returned to their proper place on my feet. With a great sigh of relief, seeing the end of her struggle with me, she asked, “Now, where are your gloves?’’
I looked into her eyes and said, “I didn’t want to lose them, so I put them into the toes of my boots.”
1.According to the passage, the little girl got_______from her brother.
A.the wool snow pants and the jacket |
B.the jacket and the boots |
C.the jacket and the hat |
D.the boots and the gloves |
2.Why does the author say Miss Finlayson would remember that first snow day?
A.Because the little girl played a trick on her. |
B.Because it was the most exciting day of the winter. |
C.Because the little girl was in her brother’s clothes. |
D.Because the little girl wore a pretty scarf. |
3.We can learn from the text that Miss Finlayson_________.
A.was losing confidence in the little girl |
B.gradually lost patience with the little girl |
C.because disappointed with the little girl |
D.was getting bored with the little girl |
4.It can be inferred(推断) that before the little girl finally went out to enjoy the first snow of winter,the teacher had to help her put on her boots __________.
A.once |
B.twice |
C.three times |
D.four times |
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