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18．阅读下面短文并回答问题，然后将答案写到答题卡相应的位置上（请注意问题后的字数要求）．
[1]It's a fine line parents walk as they try to guide their kids into adulthood．You want to protect but not treat too kindly，advise but not control and let them live their own lives-with some input，of course．
[2]When your child asks for help or advice，give only what was asked for．If your Child asks you to tie a particular hard-to-tie knot（绳结）for a project she is working on，just tie the knot．Don't start helping with the rest of the project or making suggestions on how to do it．She wants to do it herself，in her own way．Before                 which your child has not askd for，count to ten．Perhaps in those seconds you'll decide that the advice would do no good，or isn't really that important，and you'll drop it．If the advice still seems important，you will give it，but the pause may lead you to give it in a more thoughtful way．
[3]Remember that your child is not you and is not a reflection of you．We mak a serious mistake if we try to shape our children into copies of ourselves，or if we think of them as extensions or reflections of ourselves．We need to help them to be them，not try to turn them into us or into something that we think will make us look good．
[4]Our primary responsibility to our children is not that of telling them moment-to-moment or day-to-day how to behave but providing them with a healthy environment in which to develop．For example，one of the best ways you can help your kids is to work with your community to create safe-enough outdoor places to play in your neighborhood．
76．What's the best title of this text？（no more than 10 words）
Teach Children Wisely and Well/Guide Kids Into Adulthood Wisely                                                                   
77．Which sentence in the text is closest in meaning to the following one？
It's not your duty to help her finish the whole thing or give her advice on the way of doing it．
Don't start helping with the rest of the project or making suggestions on how to do it．                                                                              
78．Fill in the blank in Paragraph 2 with proper words．（no more than 5  words）
offering help or advice/you offer help or advice                                                                             
79．Make a list of three mistakes that we parents usually make in guiding the kids．（no more than 24 words）
（1）shaping the kids into our copies
（2）thinking of the kids as our extensions
（3）trying to turn the kids into us
80．Translate the underlined sentence in Paragraph 4 into Chinese．我们对子女的首要责任不是耳提面命地告诉他们如何行事，而是为他们的发展提供一个健康的环境．

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分析 本文是一篇议论文．主要阐述了如何智慧地引导孩子，把孩子教育好．你要保护孩子，但又不能太仁慈，给他们建议但又要让他们独立，我们需要掌握好度．当孩子要求给建议时，仅仅给他们要求的建议；主动提供帮助或建议之前，数到十，也许会在这几秒之内放弃目前的建议从而提供更周到的建议；孩子不是我们的翻版也不是我们的延伸；我们的主要职责不是时时刻刻告诉他们该如何去做，而是给他们的成长发展提供良好的环境．

解答 76．Teach Children Wisely and Well/Guide Kids Into Adulthood Wisely
77．Don't start helping with the rest of the project or making suggestions on how to do it．
78．offering help or advice/you offer help or advice
79．（1）shaping the kids into our copies；（2）thinking of the kids as our extensions；（3）trying to turn the kids into us
80．我们对子女的首要责任不是耳提面命地告诉他们如何行事，而是为他们的发展提供一个健康的环境
76．Teach Children Wisely and Well/Guide Kids Into Adulthood Wisely纵观全文可知，本文主要阐述了如何智慧地引导孩子，把孩子教育好．故填How to Guide Kids Into Adulthood Wisely．
77．Don't start helping with the rest of the project or making suggestions on how to do it．句意是帮助他完成整件事情或者给予他建议都不是你的职责．
78．offering help or advice/you offer help or advice根据文章第二段When your child asks for help or advice，give only what was asked for．可知当你的孩子向你寻求帮助或建议的时候，仅给予他们想要的，因此在给他提供帮助之前，数十秒．
79．（1）shaping the kids into our copies；（2）thinking of the kids as our extensions；（3）trying to turn the kids into us根据文章第三段We mak a serious mistake if we try to shape our children into copies of ourselves，or if we think of them as extensions or reflections of ourselves．We need to help them to be them，not try to turn them into us or into something that we think will make us look good．可知家长容易犯的三个错误是：把孩子塑造成我们自己，把他们当成我们的延伸，把他们转变成我们自己．
80．我们对子女的首要责任不是耳提面命地告诉他们如何行事，而是为他们的发展提供一个健康的环境．that 代指的是responsibility，how 引导的是宾语从句，in which 引导的是定语从句，修饰前面的environment．

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