A few weeks ago I was about to take my son to his ice hockey game when I noticed something unusual.He was fully dressed and ready to leave, except that one side of his shirt was tucked(塞)into his trousers while the other side remained hanging out.
“John, you look great, but you forgot to tuck in your shirt”, I said.
“Dad, you don't understand…”he replied,“I keep one side of my shirt out on purpose.It's for good luck.”
And then I understood.Superstitions(迷信)and sports go hand in hand.In fact, I would bet that superstitious behavior has been a part of sports since the beginning of organized games.
Perhaps you've noticed your own young athlete developing some unusual pre-game rituals(仪式):putting on the same dirty undershirt game after game, wearing one sock up and one sock down, eating a particular pre-game meal, listening to the same song on the tape while riding to the game.
In fact, from my experience of observing even top professional athletes, superstitions are nothing more than patterns that many athletes go through, not so much to ensure good luck, but rather to help them relax and be comfortable.
It is unusual for six-or-seven-year-old children to have already developed some sports superstitions, but by the time they're 10 or 11, your kids might begin displaying some odd behavior before a game.As a parent, don't be overly concerned.
Of course, you'll want to respect your child's requests about wearing that special“lucky shirt”or making certain you feed him that“lucky breakfast”or whatever.Don't put down the ritual.However, you should point out to your child that while it's fine to develop a pre-game ritual to help him or her prepare for a contest, you'll also want to emphasize that one's success in sports is much more a function of hard work, practice and determination.After all, those are the real values you want to put into your child's mind.
Most superstitions last only as long as the athlete continues to experience“good luck”.Once that streak of good fortune runs out, he'll be glad to drop that undershirt into the washing machine.
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