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The alarming (使人惊动的) rate of child suicide in Hong Kong , raising levels of stress and anxiety among young people , increasing conflicts between children and teachers , and children’s complaints that their parents do not understand their problems - all point to a drop in“emotional quotient (情商)”(EQ) ,the ability to handle relationships.
EQ is defined as the ability to deal with oneself and others effectively.High EQ , psychologists say , is easy to spot.Some of the greatest humanitarian (人道主义的) leaders have high EQ , along with successful managers and inspirational and respected teachers.The problem is not how to spot high EQ but to improve on low EQ so society as a whole can benefit.
In the United States , declining EQ among young people is seen as one of the factors behind rising young people’s crime because youths fail to understand others feeling-one of the key component’s of EQ.While the situation in Hong Kong is not so bad , there are warning signs levels of anxiety among youth may become critical.Declining EQ
among Hong Kong teenagers has been acknowledged by several studies including a key study by the education concern group , the Learning - Teacher Association , which found a high degree of anxiety among students over the future and also that young people lacked confidence in dealing with problems.Parents and teachers will also need to develop their own EQ skills in order to deal with them effectively.
Daniel Goleman , brought attention to the concept of EQ.He puts forwards the theory that high EQ is as important as intelligence in determining success in life.But many Asian psychologists say EQ should not be dismissed outright as an American fad.“Chinese and Western societies both value EQ , whether they realize it or not,”says Dr.Wu Jing - yi , professor psychology at Taiwan’s National Chengchi university.“Both Chinese and.Western societies believe you should be confident , but not over - confident , you must express feeling towards others effectively , be able to solve problems independently and creatively.”Dr.Wu said.“Both Chinese and people in the west need to deal with people , have successful careers and lead a happy life.”
Dr.Goleman cites (引用) a number of basic elements of high EQ:first , awareness of your feelings as you experience them which is very important to making good decisions in life.Second , feeling or awareness of what others are feeling.“Ninety percent of emotional information is expressed non - verbally and people vary in their ability to pick it up,”Dr.Goleman says in his book.
Dr.Goleman argues that without high EQ even highly – educated , highly – Intelligent people will not find success in life.Or those with low EQ , even though they may be brilliant , tend to lack feeling and impulse control.They fail easily , and they are easily intolerant and often aggressive in interpersonal relations.Some educational psychologists believe work on
EQ may be important in Hong Kong with its high rate of suicide among school children.EQ test may be able to help predict those most at risk.Those least able to deal with their own emotions or unable to deal with others , including parents and teachers.
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