Sometimes, even the best friends have fights. They disagree with each other and begin to argue. Sometimes, they even stop talking to each other and begin to argue. Sometimes, they even stop talking to each other. What can be done to help the two friends make up? Finding a good friend who knows both of them very well to be a peacemaker is a good way. Maybe one day you will be a peacemaker for your good friends. Here are some useful communication strategies for you to use.

l　　　 State your feelings clearly but don’t criticize them. Begin with “I feel” instead of “You always...”

l　　　 Don’t stop or finish the other person’s sentences.

l　　　 Listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Try to see the other person’s side of the disagreement.

l　　　 Look the other person in the eyes when you are talking.

l　　　 Ask questions to make sure that you understand them.

l　　　 Repeat the other person’s ideas as you understand them.

l　　　 Never put anyone down. Saying things like “You’re stupid” makes communication difficult.

Try to find a solution that makes the two friends happy. Never decide who is right and who is wrong. Instead, help them to find their own “win-win” solution. A “win-win” solution allows each of them to feel good. In this way, their friendship can be continued.

(56) Who can be a good peacemaker to stop fights between two friends?

A. One of their parents. B. One of their friends.

C. One of their teachers.　　 D. One of their sisters or brothers.

(57) Which of the following is the suitable language for a peacemaker?

A. “I think...”　 B. “You always...” C. “You are stupid.”　 D. “You are right.”

(58) How should the peacemaker behave when talking with the two friends?

A. Stop the other person’s sentences in time.

B. Repeat his own ideas to make himself understand.

C. Listen to the other person carefully and ask some questions.

D. Don't look at the other when you are talking.

(59) What does the phrase “put anyone down” mean in the article?

A. 令人失望　 B. 不理睬人　 C. 把人放下　 D. 羞辱人

(60) How do you understand a “win-win” solution?

A. It is a way that helps make new friends.

B. It is a way that makes both people pleased.

C. It is a way that tells who is right and who is wrong.

D. It is a way to understand a person.

Sometimes, even the best friends have fights. They disagree with each other and begin to argue. Sometimes, they even stop talking to each other for a long time.
What can we do for them? Find another good friend who knows both of them very well and ask him or her to do something for them. Here are some useful ways：
☆Tell your feelings clearly but don’t criticize(批评) either of them. Begin with “I feel…instead of” You always…
☆Ask questions to make sure that you understand them.
☆Repeat their ideas so that you can understand them.
☆Never put anyone down. Saying things like “You are stupid(愚蠢的).” may make communication difficult.
☆Try to find a good solution that makes the two friends happy. Never tell who is right and who is wrong. Instead. help them to find their own “win-win” solution. A “win—win” solution makes each of them to feel good. In this way, they will be good friends again.
【小题1】When two friends have problems, they may        .
A、have fights         
B、disagree with each other and argue
C、A and B
【小题2】Which of the following is the best words to say to the friends who had a fight?
A、I feel…            
B、You always…        
C、You are impolite.
【小题3】What should the person do while talking with the two friends?
A、Stop their sentences in time.
B、Repeat his/ her own ideas to make them understand.
C、Listen to them carefully and ask some questions.
【小题4】What does the underlined phrase “put anyone down” mean in Chinese?
A、羞辱任何人          
B、把人放下            
C、提醒任何人
【小题5】How do you understand a “win-win” solution?
A、It is a way that helps make new friends.
B、It is a way that makes both of them pleased.
C、It is a way that tells who is right and who is wrong.

Some people think only school children do not agree with their parents, however, it is not true.   1  is a problem for parents and children of all ages. If it’s hard for you to communicate with your   2 , don’t worry about it. Here is some advice for you to bridge the generation gap (代沟).

Don’t argue with your parents. Don’t get to your parents when you are   3  . Your parents probably won’t   4  your ideas if you are shouting at them. And you can’t express yourself   5  if you are angry. Go someplace to cool off. Make sure you understand why you are unhappy. Then think about what you want to   6 to your parents. If you don’t think you can speak to them at the moment,   7  writing a letter.

Try to reach an agreement. Sometimes you and your parents   8  on something. You can keep your disagreement and try your best to   9  each other. Michael’s mother didn’t agree with him about buying a motorcycle. They   10  over it. But they finally came to an agreement. Michael bought the motorcycle, but only   11  it on certain days.

Of course, your parents might refuse to agree on something. In these   12 , it is especially   13  to show love and respect to them. Showing respect will keep your relationship with your parents strong.

Talk about your   14 . The values of your parents are probably different from those of your own. Tell your parents what you  15  about, and why. Understanding your values might help them see your purposes in life.

A good relationship with your parents can make you a better and happier person. It is worth having a try!

1.                A．Education       B．Communication   C．Presentation   D．Examination

2.                A．friends         B．teachers        C．parents   D．students

3.                A．surprised       B．excited         C．happy    D．angry

4.                A．consider        B．describe        C．cause    D．require

5.                A．loudly          B．clearly          C．excitedly  D．heavily

6.                A．speak          B．talk            C．tell  D．say

7.                A．keep           B．stop           C．try  D．finish

8.                A．disagree        B．agree          C．insist D．work

9.                A．love           B．help           C．refuse    D．accept

10.               A．looked         B．turned         C．fought D．argued

11.               A．drove          B．bought         C．borrowed  D．lent

12.               A．ways           B．places          C．situations  D．times

13.               A．interesting      B．surprising       C．difficult   D．important

14.               A．hobbies        B．interests        C．values D．feelings

15.               A．know          B．care           C．learn D．hear