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Q: My problem is computer gaming. I do it day and night, averaging four hours of sleep. I can't control of this, and I don't know where to go for help. Do you?                                 —Player

A: Dear Player,

You have an addiction. For some people playing video games releases dopamine, a powerful brain chemical that makes you feel good. You'd toss your cigarettes if you were ready to quit, right? To kick the habit, get help from a health professional. And don't look for help on line; that would be like an alcoholic going to the bar for advice.

Q: My brother's wife just had triplets(三胞胎). This is such a joy! Yet every time I share the news with co-workers, they ask me if she was on fertility pills. I think this is rude—or has society just become so talk-show numbed (麻木的)that you can ask anyone anything?                    —No Show Host

A: Dear Host,

Yes. Our society has become increasingly disrespectful of privacy. But don't blame it all on the talk-shows. Continue to celebrate and greet impolite questions with stony silence. Their fertility history is nobody's business but their own.

Q: I work at an amusement park, and my manager steals supplies. She has a catering business on the side, and we've seen her load up her van at the back gates. The big bosses think she is the best thing since buttered bread, and we're all afraid that if we say anything, we'll lose our jobs. What can we do?        —Righteous

A: Dear Righteous,

Be sure you're right. You must have evidence about what and why things are going out the back gates. Once you know for certain, it's time to go to the bosses and report what you have seen.

Q: My stepson's wife sometimes leaves their eight-year-old home alone for "a short run to the store." That may be an hour or so. I believe by law we should report it. What do you think?

—The In-laws

A: Dear Laws,

I don't know what the child-protection laws in your state are, but I do know that children need care and attention. This child may be able and unafraid, but kids aren't always careful. It also sounds like there is stress in your family relationship. One thing you can do to help this situation is offer to baby-sit when Mom needs to step out.

1.Which of the following statements is true?

A. Dopamine is a powerful brain chemical good to our health.

B. Looking for help on line is like getting help from a health professional.

C. Player is a video game addict who smokes and sleeps few hours.

D. Player is advised to stay clear of the screen.

2.According to the Q&A,        .

A. Host's colleagues are insensitive

B. The talk-show is to blame

C. Somebody's business is everybody's

D. Host's sister-in-law was on fertility pills

3.What we can infer from the Q&A is       .

A. The Mom is not to blame because she needs a short run to the store

B. Children need care and attention, though not for all of them

C. Laws, the old lady, wants to report what she sees to the child's father

D. Laskas doesn't seem to approve of Laws' trying to report what she sees

4.Which Q&A mentioned transport?

A. The first             B. The second.         C. The third.       D. None.

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　　I once thought I would be a perfect parent. It took 1 sixteen years to learn 2 I could not be. I know that I made 3 mistakes. If I raised my 4 again, I would not make those 5 . Maybe I would make 6 ones, but I would do a better job.

　　I would try to understand my 7 towards my children. I often did what my own 8 would have done. I 9 their ways of raising children control me. For example , I had my teenage 10 David come home early. He hated this rule. He said no reason 11 it. As a girl, I had to be 12 early. I wanted my son to do 13 Today I would think more about 14 I wanted things done in a certain way.

　　My father was sick when I was 15 My sister, My brother, and 16 were quiet at 17 . we did not yell in anger. We did not shout for 18 . I wanted my children to be quiet too. I never 19 to ask “Why?” 20 was hard for me to let my children show anger. I stopped my children when 21 started to get angry. Now I would tell my 22 . “It is all 23 to show love. It is all right to show 24 . Your feelings are good I love you 25 what you feel.”

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　　I once thought I would be a perfect parent. It took 1 sixteen years to learn 2 I could not be. I know that I made 3 mistakes. If I raised my 4 again, I would not make those 5 . Maybe I would make 6 ones, but I would do a better job.

　　I would try to understand my 7 towards my children. I often did what my own 8 would have done. I 9 their ways of raising children control me. For example , I had my teenage 10 David come home early. He hated this rule. He said no reason 11 it. As a girl, I had to be 12 early. I wanted my son to do 13 Today I would think more about 14 I wanted things done in a certain way.

　　My father was sick when I was 15 My sister, My brother, and 16 were quiet at 17 . we did not yell in anger. We did not shout for 18 . I wanted my children to be quiet too. I never 19 to ask “Why?” 20 was hard for me to let my children show anger. I stopped my children when 21 started to get angry. Now I would tell my 22 . “It is all 23 to show love. It is all right to show 24 . Your feelings are good I love you 25 what you feel.”

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