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A conflict at work is common. If you can avoid  conflict, it means you will win what you want regardless of what the other person wants. Since the potential issue has not been removed, it will simply reappear later. Here are the necessary steps to effectively get rid of conflicts at work.
★Be aware of the fact that some conflicts are unavoidable at work. On numerous occasions, conflict and disagreement are likely to happen. But when a conflict happens it’s not the end of the world. On the contrary, it can be the beginning of an interesting learning process. Conflicts mean that people care enough to disagree strongly. The trick is not to allow the conflict to go on forever.
★ Deal with conflicts sooner rather than later. Solve a conflict when it starts, as it only gets worse with time going by. Conflicts at work arise not from something that was said, but from something that wasn’t said! Everyone’s waiting for the other to admit he’s wrong and gets more unpleasant after the conflict has lasted a while. It’s essential to interrupt the "waiting game" before it gets to that point.
★ Ask nicely. If somebody has done something that made you angry, or if you don’t understand their viewpoint or actions, simply asking nicely about it can make a world of difference.  Never assume that people do what they do to annoy or hurt you. Sometimes there’s a good reason why that person does what he or she does, and a potential conflict disappear right there. Do remember to make an inquiry, not an accusation of any sort.
★ Appreciate. Praise the other part in the conflict. Tell them why it’s worth it to you to solve the conflict. This can be difficult as few people find it easy to praise and appreciate a person they disagree strongly with, but it’s a great way to move forward.

Being content with yourself and optimistic about your future is not difficult. Whatever is in the past is __36__. Learn from it and move on. When you are enough __37__to do this, you will see that moving ahead is the best definition of __38__.
What can you do now? Sure it is __39__ for me to tell you to forget the past, __40__ it is a whole different __41__ to actually do it. Life is a complex set of events much of which __42__ is real, but a large amount is just your __43__ of what really happened.
Let me __44__ with an example. I know not everyone is a football fan, but I am __45__ most have watched at least __46__of a game on TV. Most games and almost all the important games are __47__ over and over on the TV screen right after the game happened.
When you watched a game, you were __48__ of the outcome, saying the player __49__ the ball. Then while watching the instant replay, you realized you were __50__ wrong. The player dropped the pass. What you were certain of never happened.
In order to __51__ on your future, you should try to minimize the effects of your past. Try to find out how much of the past that you are certain are just __52__. For example, as a teenager, you tried to build a piece of furniture in your father’s workshop. The piece of furniture looked __53__ when you finished, but it fell apart before you could __54__ it to your father. The reality was that the wood you used was faulty. It was not your building ability. So don’t think yourself to be a __55__ carpenter (木匠) and avoid building anything. Forget the past and move on.

Being content with yourself and optimistic about your future is not difficult. Whatever is in the past is   36  .Learn from it and move on. When you are   37   enough to do this, you will see that moving ahead is the best definition of living   38  .

What can you do now? Sure it is   39   for me to tell you to forget the past， 40  it is a whole   41   to actually do it. Life is a complex set of events, much of which  42  is real, but a large amount is just your  43  of what really happened.

Let me  44  with an example. I know not everyone is a football fan, but I am  45  most have watched at least  46  of a game on TV. Most games and almost all the important games are  47  over and over on the TV screen right after the game happened.

When you watched a game, you were  48  of the outcome, saying the player  49  the ball. Then while watching the instant replay, you realized you were  50  wrong. The player dropped the pass. What you were certain of never happened.

In order to  51  on your future, you should try to minimize the effects of your past. Try to find out how much of the past that you are certain are just  52 . For example, as a teenager, you tried to build a piece of furniture in your father's work­shop. The piece of furniture looked  53  when you finished, but it fell apart before you could  54  it to your father. The reality was that the wood you used was faulty. It was not your building ability. So don't think yourself to be a  55  carpenter (木匠) and avoid building anything. Forget the past and move on.

36.A.on                        B.out                            C.down                 D.over

37.A.ambitious             B.bitter                         C.sad                    D.desperate

38.A.work                   B.life                            C.death                 D.leisure

39.A.boring                  B.surprising                  C.easy                   D.hard

40.A.so                       B.as                            C.yet                     D.after

41.A.practice               B.theory                             C.order               D.pleasure

42.A.in all                     B.of course                   C.on time                     D.at last

43.A.mind                    B.plan                          C.fact                   D.view

44.A.explain                  B.deny                         C.admit                 D.prove

45.A.deciding                B.remembering              C.noticing              D.guessing

46.A.none                     B.all                             C.part                   D.series

47.A.studied                 B.played                       C.wanted               D.sold

48.A.doubtful                B.unsure                       C.conscious           D.certain

49.A.passing                 B.catching                    C.getting               D.breaking

50.A.seldom                 B.slightly                      C.totally                D.fortunately

51.A.keep                     B.concentrate                C.put                    D.get

52.A.mistakes               B.successes                  C.measures            D.preparations

53.A.weel                     B.good                         C.bad                    D.big

54.A.promise                B.feed                          C.offer                  D.show

55.A.handsome             B.hardworking              C.terrible               D.helpful

Being content with yourself and optimistic about your future is not difficult. Whatever is in the past is   36  . Learn from it and move on. When you are enough   37   to do this, you will see that moving ahead is the best definition of living   38  .

 What can you do now? Sure it is   39   for me to tell you to forget the past,   40   it is a whole different   41   to actually do it. Life is a complex set of events, much of which   42   is real, but a large amount is just your   43   of what really happened.

Let me   44   with an example. I know not everyone is a football fan, but I am   45   most have watched at least   46   of a game on TV. Most games and almost all the important games are    47   over and over on the TV screen right after the game happened.

 When you watched a game, you were   48   of the outcome, saying the player   49   the ball. Then while watching the instant replay, you realized you were   50   wrong. The player dropped the pass. What you were certain of never happened.

 In order to   51   on your future, you should try to minimize the effects of your past. Try to find out how much of the past that you are certain are just   52  . For example, as a teenager, you tried to build a piece of furniture in your father’s workshop. The piece of furniture looked   53   when you finished, but it fell apart before you could   54   it to your father. The reality was that the wood you used was faulty. It was not your building ability. So don’t think yourself to be a   55   carpenter and avoid building anything. Forget the past and move on.

36．A. on                      B. over                    C. down                          D. out

37．A. desperate        B. bitter                   C. sad                      D. ambitious

38．A. life                  B. work                   C. death                    D. leisure

39．A. boring              B. surprising             C. hard                      D. easy

40．A. so                      B. yet                   C. as                      D. after

41．A. order               B. theory                 C. practice                   D. pleasure

42．A. of course            B. in all                  C. on time                    D. at last

43．A. mind                   B. plan                    C. view                    D. fact

44．A. prove            B. deny                   C. admit                         D. explain

45．A. deciding              B. guessing            C. noticing                D. remembering

46．A. part                 B. all                       C. none                   D. series

47．A. studied                B. wanted                 C. played                D. sold

48．A. doubtful          B. certain                 C. unsure                     D. conscious

49．A. catching             B. getting               C. breaking               D. passing

50．A. slightly                B. totally                   C. seldom                 D. fortunately

51．A. keep                B. get                 C. put                  D. concentrate

52．A. successes         B. mistakes            C. measures             D. preparations

53．A. big                      B. well                    C. good                  D. bad

54．A. offer               B. show                    C. promise                D. feed 

55．A. terrible                B. hardworking          C. handsome             D. helpful