Thanks to the Internet, a whole new online world has been opened up for us to meet, chat and go where we’ve never been before.

But just as in face to face communication, there are some rules of behavior that should be followed when on line.  The basic rule is simple: treat others in the same way you would want to be treated.   Imagine how you’d feel if you were in the other person’s shoes.

For anything you’re about to send: ask yourself, “Would I say this to the person’s face?” if the answer is no, rewrite and reread.  Repeat the process till you feel sure that you’d feel comfortable saying words to a person’s  face.

If someone in the chat room is rude to you, your instinct (本能) is to fire back in the same manner. But try not to do so.  Just pay no attention to it, or block his message.  If it was caused by a disagreement with another member, try to fix the situation by politely discussing it. Remember to respect the beliefs and opinions of others in the chat room.

Everyone was new to the network once.  Offer advice when asked by newcomers, as they may not be sure what to do or how to communicate. When someone makes a mistake, whether it’s a stupid question or an unnecessarily long answer, be kind about it. If it’s a small mistake, you may not need to say anything. Even if you feel strongly about it, think twice before saying anything. Having good manners yourself doesn’t give you license to correct everyone else.

If you do decide to tell someone about a mistake, point it out politely At the same time, if you find you are wrong, be sure to correct yourself and apologize to those that you have offended.

It is not polite to ask others personal questions such as their age, sex and marital status. Unless you know the person very well, and you are both comfortable with sharing personal information, don’t ask such questions.

1.When you send short messages to a person, you must _______.

2.If you are hurt in the chat room by others, you should_____.

3.If a newcomer who communicates online makes a mistake, you ___.

4.The passage mainly tells us _______.

We do some strange things when we don’t like the way our life is going．Too often we blame(责怪)someone else．‘‘I wish my parents were more understanding．”
“I have such a bad Chemistry teacher!”
“My friends are so boring and self-centered．They make my life worse and worse．’’
Blame! Blame! Blame!
It seems natural to sing this self-pitying song，but the truth is，if you don’t like your life，you should do something about it．No one else knows exactly how you feel or what you need．No one can read your mind correctly．You are the only one with the power to cheek your life，and if you want it to be different，you can change what you’re doing．
When you’re in trouble，don’t give away your power to decide how you feel about yourself. Choose how you want to think and act．Other people can’t make you unhappy or angry．They only act in their own way and then it’s up to you to decide how you will respond(回应)．For example，your friends go out to lunch without you and you feel very angry．How are you going to act? You may blame your friends，“They are not kind．Who needs them anyway?” Or you may tell your friends how you feel，listen to their explanation，and let them know you’d like to be invited next time．
When you decide everything in your own way，you’re getting hold of your own life and shaping(塑造)it according to your tastes and feelings．You can choose to be happy，to make friends and to build an interesting life．When you blame others for what is or isn’t happening in your life，you have stopped growing or learning．
One of the most important rules is that you can never change another person by your direct action．The only person you have the right to change is yourself．Once you change，the other person has something different to respond to and change is possible．If you want change in your life，begin with yourself．

1. 1.

   What should we do if we don’t like our life?

   1. A.
      Change what we’re doing．
   2. B.
      Read our minds correctly．
   3. C.
      Sing that self-pitying song．
   4. D.
      Tell others what we want．
2. 2.

   If the writer’s friends have dinner together without him，he may______.

   1. A.
      ask somebody else to talk to them
   2. B.
      do the same thing to them in return
   3. C.
      talk to them and try to find out why
   4. D.
      forget it and be still friendly with them
3. 3.

   What’s the writer’s idea about how to change others?

   1. A.
      He thinks it’s impossible to change others．
   2. B.
      He believes our love can change everything．
   3. C.
      He chooses to talk with others directly．
   4. D.
      He prefers to change ourselves first instead．
4. 4.

   At the beginning of the passage three examples are given______.

   1. A.
      to support the idea that people often blame others
   2. B.
      to suggest that there are various problems in people’s life
   3. C.
      to show that not all chemistry teachers are fit for their job
   4. D.
      to explain the reason why some people’s life is worse and worse
5. 5.

   What’s the best title of the passage?

   1. A.
      Blame! Blame! Blame!
   2. B.
      Who Controls My Life?
   3. C.
      Change! Change! Change!
   4. D.
      What Makes Me Unhappy?

I remember one Thanksgiving when our family had no money and no food, and someone came knocking on our door. A man was ___36____ there with a huge box of food, a giant turkey and even some ___37____ to cook it in. I couldn’t ___38___ it. My dad demanded, “Who are you? Where are you from?”

The stranger announced, “I’m here because a friend of yours knows you’re in need and that you wouldn’t accept __39__ help, so I’ve brought this for you. Have a great Thanksgiving.”

My father said, “No, no, we ___40___ accept this.” The stranger replied “You don’t have __41____.”, closed the door and left.

Obviously that experience had a profound impact (深刻影响) on my life. I ___42___ myself that someday I would do well enough financially _43__ I could do the same thing for other people. By the time I was eighteen I had created my Thanksgiving ritual (习惯). I would go out ____44___ and buy enough food for one or two ___45____. Then I would dress like a delivery boy, go to the __46____ neighbourhood and just knock on a ___47____. I always __48____ a note that explained my Thanksgiving experience __49____ a kid. The note said, “All that I ask ___50___ is that you take good enough care of ___51____ so that someday you can do the same thing for someone else.” I have received more from this annual ritual than I have from any amount of __52____ I’ve ever earned.

Years ago I was in New York City with my new wife during Thanksgiving. She was sad because we were not with our family. ___53____ she would be home decorating the house for Christmas, but we were __54_____ in a hotel room. When I told her what I always do on Thanksgiving, she got excited.

We packed enough food for seven families for thirty days and went to buildings where half a dozen people lived in one room with no electricity and no heat in winter surrounded by rats, cockroaches(蟑螂) and the smell of urine(尿). It was both an ___55____ realization that people lived this way and a truly fulfilling experience to make even a small difference.

1.A．speaking  B．standing      C．looking        D．shouting

2.A．meat         B．vegetables  C．pans    D．firewood

3.A．believe    B．accept         C．help    D．refuse

4.A．direct       B．some  C．our      D．any

5.A．may not   B．needn’t       C．can’t   D．daren’t

6.A．any money       B．a choice      C．food    D．a turkey

7.A．permitted         B．promised    C．asked  D．said

8.A．when        B．so that         C．even if         D．as if

9.A．driving     B．playing         C．offering       D．shopping

10.A．people   B．children      C．families        D．days

11.A．nearest  B．farthest       C．largest         D．poorest

12.A．house    B．door   C．window       D．gate

13.A．concluded      B．included      C．wrote D．took

14.A．like         B．with    C．as        D．to

15.A．in return         B．later    C．in future      D．for

16.A．others    B．yourself       C．your family D．the presents

17.A．warmth  B．thanks          C．money         D．encouragement

18.A．Unfortunately         B．Obviously    C．Normally     D．Gradually

19.A．stuck      B．excited        C．free    D．delighted

20.A．exciting B．astonishing C．encouraging        D．outstanding

I remember one Thanksgiving when our family had no money and no food, and someone came knocking on our door. A man was ___36____ there with a huge box of food, a giant turkey and even some ___37____ to cook it in. I couldn’t ___38___ it. My dad demanded, “Who are you? Where are you from?”

The stranger announced, “I’m here because a friend of yours knows you’re in need and that you wouldn’t accept __39__ help, so I’ve brought this for you. Have a great Thanksgiving.”

My father said, “No, no, we ___40___ accept this.” The stranger replied “You don’t have __41____.”, closed the door and left.

Obviously that experience had a profound impact (深刻影响) on my life. I ___42___ myself that someday I would do well enough financially _43__ I could do the same thing for other people. By the time I was eighteen I had created my Thanksgiving ritual (习惯). I would go out ____44___ and buy enough food for one or two ___45____. Then I would dress like a delivery boy, go to the __46____ neighbourhood and just knock on a ___47____. I always __48____ a note that explained my Thanksgiving experience __49____ a kid. The note said, “All that I ask ___50___ is that you take good enough care of ___51____ so that someday you can do the same thing for someone else.” I have received more from this annual ritual than I have from any amount of __52____ I’ve ever earned.

Years ago I was in New York City with my new wife during Thanksgiving. She was sad because we were not with our family. ___53____ she would be home decorating the house for Christmas, but we were __54_____ in a hotel room. When I told her what I always do on Thanksgiving, she got excited.

We packed enough food for seven families for thirty days and went to buildings where half a dozen people lived in one room with no electricity and no heat in winter surrounded by rats, cockroaches(蟑螂) and the smell of urine(尿). It was both an ___55____ realization that people lived this way and a truly fulfilling experience to make even a small difference.

36. A. speaking     B. standing         C. looking             D. shouting

37. A. meat        B. vegetables      C. pans                 D. firewood

38. A. believe      B. accept          C. help                 D. refuse

39. A. direct       B. some           C. our                  D. any

40. A. may not     B. needn’t         C. can’t                 D. daren’t

41. A. any money   B. a choice        C. food                 D. a turkey

42. A. permitted    B. promised       C. asked                D. said

43. A. when       B. so that          C. even if               D. as if

44. A. driving      B. playing        C. offering               D. shopping

45. A. people      B. children        C. families               D. days

46. A. nearest      B. farthest        C. largest                D. poorest

47. A. house       B. door          C. window               D. gate

48. A. concluded    B. included      C. wrote                 D. took

49. A. like         B. with          C. as                    D. to

50. A. in return      B. later         C. in future               D. for

51. A. others       B. yourself       C. your family            D. the presents

52. A. warmth      B. thanks        C. money                D. encouragement

53. A. Unfortunately   B. Obviously     C. Normally            D. Gradually

54. A. stuck         B. excited        C. free                 D. delighted

55. A. exciting       B. astonishing     C. encouraging          D. outstanding

Dealing with a jealous friend isn’t easy. It can be very frustrating. Find out how to make the best of the situation, be fair to yourself and your friend, and, if possible, preserve the friendship. It can be done!
Try to find out why your friend is jealous. Is it something you said? Is it something you have little or no control over, such as your looks or your family? Is it something your friend should be supportive of, such as your grades or a special talent of yours? 
Once you know where the jealousy comes from, try to be empathetic: Imagine you're your friend or how you'd feel in the same situation.
Find out what your friend really wants to have. Do they wish they felt smarter or had more supportive parents? Maybe you can be helpful. Let them know that you believe in them and ask what you can do help them get what they want.
Try not to brag, show off or make things that would make your friend feel frustrated. This will only fan the flames of the jealousy.
Show that you're happy about your life, but be sure to show interest and excitement about things going on in your friend's life, too. Take some time to point out some of their unique strengths and good qualities.
Sometimes jealousy is mixed with a lot of anger. If your efforts to listen to your friend and encourage them aren't working, give them some time to cool off. They may need to work out their feelings alone or with someone who's not the object of their jealousy.
Call up some extra support for yourself, too. Another friend, a relative or a girlfriend/boyfriend may be able to help you sort out your feelings about being the object of your friend's jealousy. A lot of people feel bad about making someone else jealous, so be sure to remind yourself why you're a good person!
1．What’s the passage mainly about?
A．What you should do when your friend needs help.
A．How to make a close friend.
C．The best way to deal with a jealous friend.
D．how to deal with a jealous friend.
2．According to the author, dealing with a jealous friend        .
A．is an easy thing for everyone  B．is sure to damage the friendship
C．doesn’t need anyone’s help     D．may cause you to feel bad.
3．The first step for you to deal with a jealous friend is to        .
A．understand your friend’s feelings
B．show that you’re happy about your life
C．find out what your friend really wants to have
D．find out where the jealousy comes form
4．The underlined sentence in paragraph 5 probably means that      .
A．jealousy makes your friend unable to tell right from wrong
B．this will just make your friend more jealous
C．it is easy to put out the flames of your friend’s jealousy
D．you should help deal with your friend’s frustration