阅读短文，根据括号中的汉语意思填入单词，使短文意思完整、通顺。每空一词。

I remember when I was young, my parents used to focus on（关注）everything I did. I liked wearing bright red c 1., but they said the colour was too sharp. I loved listening to rock and roll, but they said it was too n 2.. I hated eating vegetables, but they said they were good for my h 3..

Later, I studied at a boy’s school. My parents always asked me to study hard. I felt stressed. Every night, I asked myself, “What’s wrong with me?” My parents always tells me that the things I do are b 4..I gave up many things I liked doing. My life was not as c 5. as my friends’ lives.

I studied psychology（心理学）when I was at university. I got very good marks, b 6. I still did not understand why my parents were so strict.

Then I got married and had two c 7.. I heard myself tell them, “Don’t talk on the phone so much! You should focus on your school work. Use your f 8. time to read…” I began to understand my p 9.. They told me what to do because they cared, just as I told my children what to do because I cared.

Young people, behind all the a 10. your parents give you, what they are really saying is, “We care about you and we love you.”

As soon as I have done that, _______ that you have all the _______ .

1. A.
   find out; papers
2. B.
   find out; paper
3. C.
   make sure; paper
4. D.
   make sure; papers

We can’t do two things _____.