第二节 完型填空(共20小题;每小题1.5分,满分30分)
Just listen
I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our 36 , and especially if it’s given from the 37 . When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but 38 them. Just take them 39 . Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than 40 it.
One of my patients told me that when she 41 to tell her story, people often 42 to tell her that they had once had something just like that happen to her. Subtly her pain became a story about themselves. 43 she stopped talking to most people. It was just too 44 . We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the 45 of attention to ourselves. But when we listen, they know we care.
I have ever learned to 46 to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the tissues(纸巾) 47 I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them 48 , to take them out of their 49 of sadness and pain. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there 50 them.
This 51 thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been 52 since I was very young at school. I thought people listened only because they were too 53 to speak or did not know the answer. A loving silence often has far more 54 to connect than the most well-intentioned 55 .
36.A.introduction B.instruction C.attention D.relaxation
37.A.head B.memory C.mind D.heart
38.A.talk to B.listen to C.object to D.stick to
39.A.in B.up C.off D.away
40.A.denying B.remembering C.questioning D.understanding
41.A.managed B.tried C.hoped D.expected
42.A.encouraged B.interrupted C.discouraged D.urged
43.A.Eventually B.Immediately C.Completely D.Especially
44.A.impolite B.meaningless C.lonely D.selfish
45.A.middle B.focus C.center D.choice
46.A.respond B.compare C.link D.regret
47.A.unless B.if C.until D.when
48.A.down B.away C.in D.off
49.A.experiment B.mixture C.judgment D.experience
50.A.with B.against C.for D.among
51.A.complex B.simple C.complicated D.single
52.A.mentioned B.published C.taught D.proved
53.A.shy B.greedy C.active D.proud
54.A.strength B.energy C.power D.force
55.A.gestures B.praise C.criticism D.words
35.Do you want to leave everything to your wife in your will, or would you like anyone else .
A.to be mentioned B.to mention
C.being mentioned D.to have been mentioned
34.No one is permitted to enter the hall without first his identification card.
A.having to show B.show C.showing D.having shown
33.-The meeting is scheduled to begin at 7 o’clock.
-But a delay.
A.it will be B.there has been C.there will be D.there is
32.When he was making himself a cup of tea, his parents unexpectedly.
A.have been arriving B.has been arrived
C.arrived D.had arrived
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