55．A．praised　　　　　　　　 B．pretended　　　　　　 C．pressed　　　　　　　　 D．prayed

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Dahlia was running around the house screaming and crying. “I hate her! I hate her! I will

36　　 play with her again!” Finally ,her steps slowed ,　　　 37　 she told her father what had happened .He listened attentively.　　　 38　 she stopped ,he asked , “Is there　　 39　　 else?” Dahlia added more details and began　　　 40　 bitterly again. Father listened .When Dahlia　　　 41　 talking ,he said, “It must　　　 42　　 to be made fun of like this by your best friend Tina.” Dahlia 43　　 　her father’s embrace(拥抱)and support as she cried 　　44　 　more in his arms. Then as 　　45　 　as the storm of tears began, she was finished. She got up and　 　　46　 　announced, “Daddy, did you know that tomorrow Tina and I are going together to the beach? We are 　　47　 　a log house there with Adam and Tom, I will tell Tina before we go that I 　　48　　 　ruin her work again, and I’m sure she will be 　　49　 　to me. ”

Why was this encounter ( sudden meeting ) so successful? How did Dahlia 　50　 　her upset so completely and realize her responsibility in the matter 　　51　 　her own?

There were three main parts in her father’s reaction that　 　　52　 ; (A) Attention (B ) Respect (C) Trust. He gave his daughter 　53　 　attention and took her seriously as she 　　54　 　her feelings. He respected her by not coming with words of wisdom, advice or help. He validated(证实)the feelings she 　55　 . And he trusted her to do and say what she needed in order to lead herself toward resolution of her emotions.

54．A．presentation　　　　 B．preference　　　　　 C．attention　　　　　　　 D．arrangement

53．A．negative　　　　　　　 B．uncertain　　　　　　 C．positive　　　　　　　 D．obvious

52．A．ordered　　　　　　　 B．requested　　　　　　 C．confused　　　　　　 D．compressed

51．A．decision　　　　　　　 B．preparation　　　　　 C．struggle　　　　　　　 D．debate

50．A．special　　　　　　　　 B．ordinary　　　　　　　 C．normal　　　　　　　　 D．no

49．A．desired　　　　　　　　 B．declared　　　　　　　 C．determined　　　　　 D．declined

48．A．recognized　　　　　 B．knew　　　　　　　　　 C．spared　　　　　　　　 D．regained

47．A．Worn　　　　　　　　　 B．Having　　　　　　　　 C．putting　　　　　　　　 D．Dressed

46．A．rose　　　　　　　　　　 B．raised　　　　　　　　　 C．got　　　　　　　　　　 D．left